@Mamanyt
That's a drink or two a night 4-6 nights a week BEFORE she found out.
You see this is really unhelpful.
There are regular threads on here with women thinking they should abort their wanted baby as they had a drink or 2 when pregnant.
That's not good is it.
Loads of women don't know they're pregnant until they're down the line a bit. Do you support the WHO things?
In the ?70s women were advised to drink a bottle of stout every day for the iron.
I've read that in medieval London very weak beer was drunk instead of water because the water was filthy.
If a small amount of alcohol causes...? Did you mean FAS? then how has the human race got by?
Have you considered the possibility that you friend is not being entirely honest.
Certainly I know women who have been out on the lash when they didn't know they were pregnant and their kids are fine.
In the end. What do you actually want DONE about this? How would you address it?