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To think dark brown eyes aren’t common in white British people

329 replies

Runaway3444 · 16/05/2021 09:49

Ds1 has dark brown eyes and due to his skin tone people just assume he’s white British rather than having a Middle Eastern father. My other children have a darker skin tone so people believe them. Aibu to think most people with dark brown eyes are usually from minority ethics background.

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hardboiledeggs · 16/05/2021 09:51

I wouldn’t say so, I know lots of white people with dark brown eyes including my own kids and I have blue eyes Smile

StCharlotte · 16/05/2021 09:52

YABU.

My whole family (except blue-eyed me) have dark brown eyes and we are of Celtic/ anglo-saxon stock on both sides.

Faithless12 · 16/05/2021 09:52

YABU

tiredoftiers · 16/05/2021 09:53

Yabu

IhateBoswell · 16/05/2021 09:53

YABU, yes.

Adventureswith · 16/05/2021 09:53

No, white people have brown eyes...

sparepantsandtoothbrush · 16/05/2021 09:54

YABU. I know plenty of white people with dark brown eyes, DH and DC included

Chillychangchoo · 16/05/2021 09:54

Yabu

My youngest son has dark, dark brown eyes. He also has very blonde hair and burns in the sunshine if he’s not careful. His skin is fair.

HamAndCheeseToastie5032 · 16/05/2021 09:54

My DC have white ethnicity and eyes like maltesers

Soubriquet · 16/05/2021 09:54

Yabu

I know quite a few people who have dark brown/chocolate brown eyes

Now blue eyes with black hair, I find is rare

Runaway3444 · 16/05/2021 09:54

Sorry I didn’t realise how common it was but I definitely think people shouldn’t judge ethnicity solely by a persons skin tone.

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startrek90 · 16/05/2021 09:54

Wouldn't say so op. I'm white British and I have dark brown eyes, so does my sister whilst our other sister has blue. My German son has dark brown eyes too whilst his siblings have blue. I don't think ethnicity is determined by eye colour as I have met BAME people with blue or green eyes, it's rarer but it happens.

Lockheart · 16/05/2021 09:55

Think whatever you like, why would you be unreasonable?

Mrsfrumble · 16/05/2021 09:55

Apparently a lot of Welsh people have Iberian DNA, so the dark hair and eyes combination is common there. DH has Welsh heritage and has very dark (nearly black) hair and dark brown eyes, as does DD.

Scarby9 · 16/05/2021 09:55

I have dark brown eyes, my mum has dark brown eyes, hr siblings have dark brown eyes, my cousins have dark brown eyes... All distinctly Anglo-Saxon traced back to the 1700s.

CastleCrasher · 16/05/2021 09:56

Um, no? Brown eyes are very common as it's the dominant gene. All but one of my extended family have brown eyes, none have minority ethnic roots

Confusedandshaken · 16/05/2021 09:56

We are a white family from an Irish background so very fair skinned. My mum, dad brothers and sisters all have brown eyes. I'm the odd one out with green eyes. I have always assumed white people with brown eyes was normal

DenisetheMenace · 16/05/2021 09:56

My whole white family of a couple of dozen, with one exception, has brown eyes, though we have a black ancestor many generations back.

justanotherneighinparadise · 16/05/2021 09:57

I have a sibling with dark brown eyes, white skin. Completely Anglo Saxon.

LarryUnderwood · 16/05/2021 09:58

I have light/tawny brown eyes and my dad, grandparents had dark brown eyes. My dad also has olive skin which tans in a second. As far as we are aware our ancestry is very Anglo saxon, although we don't really know prior to c1900. Both my parents in law have dark brown eyes too. I think brown eyes are really common.

paloma10 · 16/05/2021 10:00

Most people have brown eyes don’t they? It’s the dominant gene.

starlight36 · 16/05/2021 10:00

When I was a kid people used to remark on my blue eyes as being unusual as brown eyes seemed to be more common then. More of my family definitely had brown eyes so perhaps I stood out more. I remember being a bit fed up that adults felt the need to constantly point it out!

CounsellorTroi · 16/05/2021 10:00

@Mrsfrumble

Apparently a lot of Welsh people have Iberian DNA, so the dark hair and eyes combination is common there. DH has Welsh heritage and has very dark (nearly black) hair and dark brown eyes, as does DD.
I’m Welsh but have dark hair, blue eyes and fair easily burning Celtic skin.
ForgedInFire · 16/05/2021 10:00

Most of my DPs family (white Brit) have dark brown eyes, jet black hair. Only one of our 3 dc have inherited it though.
My nephew is half Asian and he has blue eyes and quite light skin so people don't often realise he is mixed race. If people aren't believing your DC when he tells them his ethnicity that is weird and wrong though.

NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 16/05/2021 10:01

I know lots of white people with dark brown eyes

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