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Where are we all at in life?

142 replies

Flowers24 · 28/03/2021 14:58

I am interested to see often on posts people at different stages of life as as parents, which one are you?

  • no kids but ttc
- no kids by choice (not sure if no kids by choice people come on MN!)
  • parents of babies and toddlers
  • parents of primary school age
  • parents of secondary and college age, uni age 18-21
  • parents of 20 somethings
  • parents of 30 and above
  • parents of mixed ages

Probably missed something out but you get the jist.....

Me...parents of teen so secondary, college and uni age

OP posts:
Troublewaters2021 · 28/03/2021 15:00

Secondary school
Primary school
And a baby haha
So mixed ages !

Kerberos · 28/03/2021 15:01

Stage 5.

doctorhamster · 28/03/2021 15:02

One in primary and one in secondary. Youngest starts secondary in September.

LaceyBetty · 28/03/2021 15:02

Parent of 2 primary age children. One in last year of primary

Garlia · 28/03/2021 15:02

(not sure if no kids by choice people come on MN!

Hmm
heidbuttsupper · 28/03/2021 15:04

No kids through choice. Love Mumsnet

Alannathelioness · 28/03/2021 15:04

No kids by choice up to this point. Thinking of TTC next year. (9year relationship, married 4.5years, aged 31)

Namechange2790 · 28/03/2021 15:05

2 dc in secondary, 2 dc in primary 3

Flowers24 · 28/03/2021 15:05

Thats nice that people come on with no kids by choice and love MN, didnt mean to sound weird about that , just genuinely interested :)

OP posts:
Heartofstrings · 28/03/2021 15:07

I have 2 preschoolers

PinkPurpleParade · 28/03/2021 15:08

3yo and TTC Smile

ballstoit · 28/03/2021 15:09

3 DC and 1 DSC, all secondary aged. Youngest in first year of secondary.

I love their increasing independence and the fact that we're not so tied to a strict routine but also have the occasional sad moment when I miss having a little one.

UhtredRagnarson · 28/03/2021 15:10

Secondary age. I see them at feeding times. I miss them.

ZackaryQuack · 28/03/2021 15:11

Toddler, currently ttc number 2

wandawombat · 28/03/2021 15:12

@Flowers24

Thats nice that people come on with no kids by choice and love MN, didnt mean to sound weird about that , just genuinely interested :)
Have you missed all the "what are people with no children doing on this site" threads?
Vixivixen · 28/03/2021 15:13

Parent of a toddler and pregnant. Feeling old for this stage (40) and tired but apart of that is to do with lockdown lethargy I think! On the plus side, career and finances are good and fingers crossed won’t be too derailed by a second baby if it does happen.

LegendDairy · 28/03/2021 15:13

No kids. No plans to have them either.

mammmamia · 28/03/2021 15:16

Parent of twins in last year of primary. Early 40s.

ViciousJackdaw · 28/03/2021 15:16

I chose not to have DC too.

Warsawa31 · 28/03/2021 15:17

Toddler - trying to see if I can return her to the stalk and go back to child free by choice

ComtesseDeSpair · 28/03/2021 15:17

No kids through choice.

And I use MN because whilst many people here might be parents, for most people it’s not the sun total of their existence and they have opinions and experiences to share about all kinds of other things which interest them, making it a decent forum.

DaphneBridgerton · 28/03/2021 15:18

Pregnant with my first!

CounsellorTroi · 28/03/2021 15:18

No kids, not originally by choice, long past childbearing age

Garlia · 28/03/2021 15:19

@Flowers24

Thats nice that people come on with no kids by choice and love MN, didnt mean to sound weird about that , just genuinely interested :)
There are loads of childfree Mumsnetters, the parenting-based forums are just a fraction of the site.
PumpkinPie2016 · 28/03/2021 15:19

I have one 7 year old son. He's awesome but for various reasons, he will be my only.

I'm 34.

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