To give you no important details and only accept answers agreeing with me?

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Hi All,

NC in case outing.

In my opinion it was completely reasonable. Everyone I know thought so apart from a few people who didn't but they are mistaken for various reasons I can't get into at the moment (outing). One of these people was person A who is the SIL of my BIL's friend person B (legitimate breeder, no puppy farms), and it wasn't the first time that this had happened to person C, unrelated. Maybe I should just LTB.

I felt that the exclusion was about a personality clash and the teacher has got it in for DS. He is a sweet boy despite being boistrous and a bit of a livewire (NT, but diagnoses welcome). But to be clear they have been parking there every single day at drop off. Engines running. And it's not ever their hedge.

If you think IABU I can add in a few more posts later about my MIL, finances, and a diagram done with a biro that nearly doesn't work.

For clarity we earn £100,000 each and can afford it.

AIBU?
(Only YANBU answers please)

YANBU OP. It's discusting and they clearly have narcissistic personality disorder. Can you ring 101 to report?

YABU. Why should your DH get you a gift from your children today? You aren’t his mother.

Be grateful you have a MIL you heartless bitch.

You sound like hard work

Oh and I did tell her that we are supposed to be in lockdown

YABVU. If the OP was a man, the answers would be completely different.

There is an obvious solution to this, but it is outing so I can't tell you what it is.

Apologies for the typos but someone stole both my hands.

You need to go NC you are clearly an alcoholic

Awaiting monumental drip feed about the hedge.

And I could have bought the same cake in Costco for £1.

When they are dead you will wish you had been nicer. By the way, should you have been doing it anyway in a pandemic.

Call the police NOW

Have you called the police yet?

Is your DH a cyclist? If so, you’ve both brought it upon yourselves.

This happened to me too.
I think you need to move on, may be buy them a box of chocolates. Some people have a lot going on in their lives, you don’t know why they felt the need to behave this way.

Have you considered counselling?

Have you called the out of hours GP ? I suggest A&E now tbh.

You are clearly as abusive as them by not reporting to the police.

And what the fuck are you doing with time on your hands to post this on MN instead of parenting?

YABU. You haven't mentioned Covid. Not once. Don't you care about grannies? I haven't seen my MIL for over a year even though we have Been NC for decades. And I suffer from anxiety.

Reverse?

Sounds like ADHD. Get a free half hour consultation with a solicitor.

You need a Ring doorbell and you need to put locks on your bins.
If your child's class teacher doesn't like it then you'll need legal advice but in the meantime, put up a fence on your boundary.
That'll stop all the cats shitting on your washing line.

Make sure you report it to the police, so they have a record of the behaviour on their files.

You need to go on a spa day and leave him with the shopping, cleaning, cooking and childcare

In fact fuck that, a spa weekend is in order here

So what did the police say when you called them?

Phone a solicitor for a free half hour. And log it with 101.