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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To give you no important details and only accept answers agreeing with me?

623 replies

LAgeDeRaisin · 14/03/2021 14:51

Hi All,

NC in case outing.

In my opinion it was completely reasonable. Everyone I know thought so apart from a few people who didn't but they are mistaken for various reasons I can't get into at the moment (outing). One of these people was person A who is the SIL of my BIL's friend person B (legitimate breeder, no puppy farms), and it wasn't the first time that this had happened to person C, unrelated. Maybe I should just LTB.

I felt that the exclusion was about a personality clash and the teacher has got it in for DS. He is a sweet boy despite being boistrous and a bit of a livewire (NT, but diagnoses welcome). But to be clear they have been parking there every single day at drop off. Engines running. And it's not ever their hedge.

If you think IABU I can add in a few more posts later about my MIL, finances, and a diagram done with a biro that nearly doesn't work.

For clarity we earn £100,000 each and can afford it.

AIBU?
(Only YANBU answers please)

OP posts:
NotNowPlzz · 14/03/2021 15:59

Get your ducks in a row, OP. Do you have copies of the financial statements and joint access to his bank accounts? I'd put a tracker on his car, but maybe not as it might be illegal. Have my very first LTB. He is the one who owes you loyalty, not her.

Purpleneonpinkunicorns · 14/03/2021 15:59

But did they do a T Rex to make you snap and fart? And then you went to the Mexican House after logging it with 101 and ltb's? And when you arrived softzilla and bridezilla was in both your parking spots.

Sparklingbrook · 14/03/2021 15:59

@1Morewineplease

Oh FFS Op! I've done a bloody diagram for you...
You sure that's not fox poo in the garden? The donkey looks a bit sad.
inappropriateraspberry · 14/03/2021 16:00

I can't believe you let them cry for 2 whole minutes! LTB and have a Biscuit.
Envy (not envy). Couldn't you put it in your bag and put it in your own bathroom bin? As long as you didn't use a loo brush.

NotNowPlzz · 14/03/2021 16:02

You seem to be overreacting to a very normal incident. Are you usually this anxious? Maybe go and have a chat with the GP.

FOJN · 14/03/2021 16:02

And I could have bought the same cake in Costco for £1.

You could have but we're in lockdown and cake is not essential. People are dying OP.

FortunesFavour · 14/03/2021 16:03

Tap him on the nose with a rolled up newspaper and a good sharp “no”, that should do the trick x

nonevernotever · 14/03/2021 16:04

Now that I've seen your drip feed about the hedge yabu.
And you do know he's having an affair don't you?

Chicchicchicchiclana · 14/03/2021 16:04

Yanbu hun, your thread your rules.

Also

#bekind remember everyone!

Okbussitout · 14/03/2021 16:05

Yawn

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 14/03/2021 16:05

I hate when posters talk about DH "hobby" being outing when we all know it is cycling

Sparklingbrook · 14/03/2021 16:06

I am so worried about the OP I have spent the last ten minutes crying and shaking and I literally will have no sleep tonight worrying about all this so thanks for that.

Maskedrevenger · 14/03/2021 16:08

Well I’d like to feel sympathy for you but that’s what happens if you are the OW. YABVU.

FortyFiedWine · 14/03/2021 16:08

Your OP is just one big stealth boast Hmm

And you do realise that not all Mumsnetters live in England don't you????

Chicchicchicchiclana · 14/03/2021 16:09

That donkey looks suspiciously like a horse.

Sparklingbrook · 14/03/2021 16:10

@Chicchicchicchiclana

That donkey looks suspiciously like a horse.
Ah that's why he's sad! The donkey is identifying as a horse today.
macaronip1e · 14/03/2021 16:11

Meh

DryAsABone · 14/03/2021 16:13

The comments about the hedge needing to lose some leaves were probably made out of concern for it's health. I'm so sick of people trotting out the "leaf shaming" line on here. You can't even mention pruning these days. As a population we've lost sight of what a normal pruned bush looks like IMO.

Sunshinespacecadet · 14/03/2021 16:13

Is there going to be a massive drip feed?

Make him a coffee in the mug you use to clean your moon cup

trappedsincesundaymorn · 14/03/2021 16:14

How dare you smile at your SDC, that's their parents job not yours.

Sacreblue · 14/03/2021 16:15

I can’t believe the pile on, OP, you might need to sacrifice the goat, you obviously can’t afford it.

danadas · 14/03/2021 16:15

Is there a weirdly secretive hobby involved that would immediately out you? I can't progress further without knowing.

I am far too busy and important to watch topical news or use Google so who even is Meghan and what's Covid?

It's probably daddy issues though.

trappedsincesundaymorn · 14/03/2021 16:15

Should be DSC ..I'm feumin that much I can't type properly.

SanFranBear · 14/03/2021 16:16

No sympathy, OP... You knew he had children!

Holly60 · 14/03/2021 16:17

Why are you even posting on here when you could just google the answer.

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