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AIBU?

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To give you no important details and only accept answers agreeing with me?

623 replies

LAgeDeRaisin · 14/03/2021 14:51

Hi All,

NC in case outing.

In my opinion it was completely reasonable. Everyone I know thought so apart from a few people who didn't but they are mistaken for various reasons I can't get into at the moment (outing). One of these people was person A who is the SIL of my BIL's friend person B (legitimate breeder, no puppy farms), and it wasn't the first time that this had happened to person C, unrelated. Maybe I should just LTB.

I felt that the exclusion was about a personality clash and the teacher has got it in for DS. He is a sweet boy despite being boistrous and a bit of a livewire (NT, but diagnoses welcome). But to be clear they have been parking there every single day at drop off. Engines running. And it's not ever their hedge.

If you think IABU I can add in a few more posts later about my MIL, finances, and a diagram done with a biro that nearly doesn't work.

For clarity we earn £100,000 each and can afford it.

AIBU?
(Only YANBU answers please)

OP posts:
Palavah · 14/03/2021 15:16

Are you on glue?

Fearnecuptea · 14/03/2021 15:16

Well this thread is amazing, can't stop laughing.

Definitely abusive and you definitely should of called the police yesterday, what are you doing on the internet!!

Gazelda · 14/03/2021 15:17

You have a toilet brush?!!!! 😱

LAgeDeRaisin · 14/03/2021 15:17

I know the RF personally and I believe them

OP posts:
SchrodingersImmigrant · 14/03/2021 15:19

Definitely need a keto diet.

merryhouse · 14/03/2021 15:19

I can't comment on your situation because I can't get OVER your glaring spelling error in the second full paragraph. (I suppose I should be glad you actually used paragraphs so that I was able to read it in the first place.)

How can we hope to help you if you can't even be bothered to proof-read your own posts?

partyatthepalace · 14/03/2021 15:21

Don’t put up with this Shit OP! - time to go NC with your SIL, and person B, and the hedge. Flowers

SoupDragon · 14/03/2021 15:22

TBH, I think you could of handled things differently.

trappedsincesundaymorn · 14/03/2021 15:23

There's no excuse for not wearing a mask...even my dog wears one. I bet you buy chocolate as well..I despair.

Januaryissodull · 14/03/2021 15:24

You sound entitled op. But they are definitely narcissistic, I'd go no contact.

Book a spa weekend and leave them all to it.

Maybe see a solicitor too, you can get a free half an hour consultation.

LAgeDeRaisin · 14/03/2021 15:24

@merryhouse I spell even with an R. It's dialect. Don't be so racist. Educate yourself

OP posts:
muddyford · 14/03/2021 15:25

LTB!

BritWifeinUSA · 14/03/2021 15:25

Have you considered taking in ironing?

You could always bulk it up with lentils.

What part of “we are literally in the middle of a worldwide global pandemic” do you not understand?

CockneyCutie · 14/03/2021 15:26

Meghan Markle suffered far worse than you!! And you don’t see her spilling her truth all over Mnet!
Read the room Op, FFS!

TankGirl97 · 14/03/2021 15:26

Here, have my first ever Biscuit

Januaryissodull · 14/03/2021 15:26

What part of stay the fuck at home don't you understand

MrsTophamHat · 14/03/2021 15:27

God, you all sound as bad as each other Biscuit

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 14/03/2021 15:27

I’d go NC with the lot of them. Especially your kids.

That said, equal spending money and free time is the key here. And I can’t believe you didn’t give up your booked seats for those young me - they asked you to, so must clearly have had hidden disabilities. All four of them. And must have been mask exempt.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 14/03/2021 15:27

**young men

LApprentiSorcier · 14/03/2021 15:27

Are you on glue?

Aimee1987 · 14/03/2021 15:29

How dare you make such outrageous comments about BILs friend. He is clearly the greatest father / husband in the world

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 14/03/2021 15:29

How old are you all? You sound very young:

BonnieDundee · 14/03/2021 15:30

Pp is right. wheres the diagram? YABVVVVVU for not including that.

1Morewineplease · 14/03/2021 15:30

Oh FFS Op!
I've done a bloody diagram for you...

To give you no important details and only accept answers agreeing with me?
ravenmum · 14/03/2021 15:30

You probably need councilling. Go and see your local councillor.