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BOF's Big Bucket List Trip To Anglesey! *MNHQ editing title to say that there is some very sad news contained in this thread. Sending love to all*

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BitOfFun · 13/03/2021 23:19

AIBU to ask for some help planning this?

I've been on mumsnet almost forever, and it's my go-to place for wisdom, help and advice. I don't really have a long time alive, as my cancer treatment has stopped working, so I'm hoping that some of you can help me plan a trip to Anglesey, so that I've seen somewhere that isn't these four walls during my Liverpool Lockdown!

I don't want to go much further afield, as I would feel better being easily accessible to medical care if necessary. The plan is to hire a car with my husband, who'll drive, and stay a night or two in B&Bs, taking in some coastal views and sunsets.

I'd love to trawl antique shops.
I'd like to take the dog, if possible, though this isn't really essential.
Outdoors is good, but I'll have to use a wheelchair for more than short distances.
I like the idea of "hidden gems" in terms of places to visit (who doesn't?) but comfort is good too.
I'll wait for the weather to warm up a bit, so in a few weeks is fine (I hope!).

I don't want to annoy anybody, but I'd like to use this thread for a bit of support and encouragement, and keep bumping it for more ideas and suggestions.so I can make this trip as special as possible. As Anglesey isn't all that far from where I live, I could split the trip into a few parts.

So, can you help? AIBU?

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TheHoneyBadger · 14/05/2021 22:33

Didn't there used to be friday night pissed threads? I'd forgotten about Terry Wogan. Feeling quite old.

SwallowedAFly · 14/05/2021 22:34

RIP BOF.

Lissiel0u · 14/05/2021 22:46

@TheHoneyBadger

Didn't there used to be friday night pissed threads? I'd forgotten about Terry Wogan. Feeling quite old.
We used to have The Baaaaaaaaaarrrrrr
The3rdMrsdeWinter · 14/05/2021 22:58

am loving Grief Wanking Tourists

I think it's puerile.

Pagwatch · 14/05/2021 22:59

How can anyone possibly have forgotten Terry Wogan?

JayAlfredPrufrock · 14/05/2021 23:06

Pag had a Caprihananahhhh or something.

And everyone agreed with her. Endlessly.

magimedi · 14/05/2021 23:12

So sad to hear about BOF. Flowers

Remember Pag & her Caprihananahhhh & Pag boy snorkelling in some lovely warm ocean............

Not such a long timer as some but lovely to see so many old timers appear again.

Suspect BOF would like it............

FunnysInLaJardin · 15/05/2021 13:53

@The3rdMrsdeWinter

am loving Grief Wanking Tourists

I think it's puerile.

oh well, I am quite puerile
FunnysInLaJardin · 15/05/2021 13:54

@TheHoneyBadger

Didn't there used to be friday night pissed threads? I'd forgotten about Terry Wogan. Feeling quite old.
yes there did, I used to love them before MN became teetotal.

Trying to think of the MNetter from Leicester I used to chat to on there

PerArduaAdNauseum · 15/05/2021 15:13

[quote PineapplesWillHelp]@PerArduaAdNauseum "for a while?!'

Until the end! But I was always the funny one. [/quote]
Omg! Hello!

iklboo · 15/05/2021 15:40

There's still the occasional Friday Night Pissed thread I have taken enthusiastic part in.

AmazingBouncingFerret · 15/05/2021 16:02

Funnys, I think UsualSuspect was from Leicester if I remember correctly. She was a regular on the Friday Drunk Threads.

FunnysInLaJardin · 15/05/2021 16:35

@AmazingBouncingFerret

Funnys, I think UsualSuspect was from Leicester if I remember correctly. She was a regular on the Friday Drunk Threads.
Yes, that's her! Thank you, I couldn't remember her name at all
HoneyDragon · 15/05/2021 21:30

Oh man HoneyDragon introduced me to the wonders of Terry Wogan.
It’s burned into my memory.

@HannaHat I’m a much better person now, I rarely ever inflict moleskin clad penises upon the innocent.

I think the donations to woolly hugs will be absolutely grand. Spread the love a bit, and ease others pain in a small way. That’s a bit more Bof.

In fact in a world where you can be anything be Boffish for a bit. Be a bit funny, a bit kind and just a soupçon* of naughty.

*or a lot

HannaHat · 16/05/2021 07:25

Amen to that HoneyDragon ❤️

echt · 16/05/2021 08:59

Gosh, this is sad. It would be presumptuous to say I knew BoF, but was always aware of her as a regular on MN, kind and funny. The bucket list was the first time I knew of her illness.

Condolences to her family and goodbye to a good egg.

Thanks
Hassled · 16/05/2021 11:45

Lovely to see so many blasts from the past here - and of course BOF would have enjoyed it. She would have taken the piss in a warm, funny, gentle way and made me giggle.

One night long ago BOF and I randomly went down some weird Airplane rabbit hole and randomly, drunkenly, quoted lines from the film to each other on a thread that had nothing to do with air travel. No idea why or how but god it was funny. I'll miss her.

JulesJules · 17/05/2021 15:18

Omg, that bat. And Terry.

LizzieSiddal · 17/05/2021 15:22

Lovely to see so many “Oldies” here sharing memories of lovely, kind BOF. ❤️

Lampzade · 17/05/2021 15:46

Great to see so many old Mumsnetters here
Reminds me of the old days.

KnottyAndPistey · 18/05/2021 19:10

Hello lovely people

We are starting the blanket projects for BOF/Bee's family tonight if anyone would like to join us It's all over here...

Can't believe we are doing this, life has been so terribly cruel

Thank you so much Thanks

BoreOfWhabylon · 18/05/2021 19:41

Thank you K&P.
I'm in. Can't knit/crochet/sew but can fund some yarn for other, cleverer people to work their magic.
Have messaged you.

LizzieSiddal · 19/05/2021 00:29

Thank you for the link Knotty.

JulesJules · 19/05/2021 07:52

Thank you @Knotty&Pistey

JulesJules · 19/05/2021 07:54

Oops, don't know what happened there @KnottyAndPistey - I will knit 🐑

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