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Stop posting fear mongering bullshit not based in fact

117 replies

orientalknife · 10/01/2021 17:58

School closures until September
Restrictions permanently

None of this speculation is based in fact. All you are doing is making people fearful who are already struggling

Perhaps you are scared and want to project that onto others. Or you're a miserable cunt who wants others to be scared and miserable with you.

I don't know. But whatever your reason, think about the impact your factually inaccurate speculation might have on others.

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Laiste · 10/01/2021 18:00

YANBU however i haven't personally heard or read either of those examples. To be fair mind you i haven't been on MN much for a few days so i might just have missed it.

B33Fr33 · 10/01/2021 18:00

So you repeat these opinions but wish to silence them? Okaaaaayyy

Givemeabreak88 · 10/01/2021 18:01

I have seen it op. Also someone saying parents would never be allowed into school play grounds ever again 😂

daisypond · 10/01/2021 18:03

I’ve not seen those fearmongering speculations. Why are you spreading it?!

ilikebooksandplants · 10/01/2021 18:03

Thanks for this. I am normally very rational and level headed but I have been struggling today a lot with anxiety. At this point, the virus is neither here nor there (I have already had covid over Christmas and felt shit but was largely ok) but my anxiety is around the restrictions and how desperate I am to get back to normal. Posts saying things like international travel will be banned forever and that we’ll be in lockdown for years have been very unhelpful today.

Bixs · 10/01/2021 18:03

Yanbu.

I just came across one nutter claiming that someone doesn’t have the right to access health care because of the pandemic.

RickiTarr · 10/01/2021 18:04

You’ll be lucky.

tatutata · 10/01/2021 18:05

Yeah I'm also pretty sick of it, but since it's mostly the media that is spreading this stuff, not sure you can just blame people on mumsnet.

orientalknife · 10/01/2021 18:05

I'm not spreading it. I'm calling out cunty behaviour. And reassuring any poor soul sitting in fear tonight that things won't get any better that this is not factual and there is no point catastrophising the future

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Bixs · 10/01/2021 18:05

@B33Fr33

So you repeat these opinions but wish to silence them? Okaaaaayyy
Don’t be daft.

How can the op explain what posts she regards as fear mongering without repeating them.

Russellbrandshair · 10/01/2021 18:06

Or you're a miserable cunt who wants others to be scared and miserable with you.

This is the real reason. Lots of people on this site have no friends and lead miserable lives so the only way they can feel superior or equal to others is to bring them down with negativity and fear. I pity them even though their actions are vile.

orientalknife · 10/01/2021 18:06

Called it out on Facebook too

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RickiTarr · 10/01/2021 18:06

@orientalknife

I'm not spreading it. I'm calling out cunty behaviour. And reassuring any poor soul sitting in fear tonight that things won't get any better that this is not factual and there is no point catastrophising the future
The problem is they don’t think they’re being cunty. They think they are being ever so clever to see through all the secret plots. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Funkypolar · 10/01/2021 18:07

Meh, I’m more worried about climate change and nuclear war. Pandemics come and go.

Bixs · 10/01/2021 18:07

@Russellbrandshair

Or you're a miserable cunt who wants others to be scared and miserable with you.

This is the real reason. Lots of people on this site have no friends and lead miserable lives so the only way they can feel superior or equal to others is to bring them down with negativity and fear. I pity them even though their actions are vile.

This!
notanothertakeaway · 10/01/2021 18:08

I read that after Spanish flu, society went back to normal surprisingly quickly. I think it will be the same post covid

wellthatsunusual · 10/01/2021 18:09

@Givemeabreak88

I have seen it op. Also someone saying parents would never be allowed into school play grounds ever again 😂
Parents aren't allowed in the school playground at my kids school anyway, Covid or not. It's bliss. I'd never heard of such a thing until I read Mumsnet. It's bliss, no playground parent politics. Grin

Anyway, with regard to the OP, yanbu!.

Speedyspunker · 10/01/2021 18:09

Yanbu

Misery loves company and the scaremongers feel better when they drag us into their spiral of despair.
Ok, things are shit right now but pandemics don't last for ever and we will come out the other side.

UpShutTheFuck · 10/01/2021 18:11

I agree OP. It's so bloody depressing to see so much absolute bollocks stated as fact.

Problem is, many people have absolutely no critical thinking skills and will believe anything if it is written down and seem to have no means/inclination to spend a couple of minutes fact-checking.

MissMarpleDarling · 10/01/2021 18:12

The only place I've heard that are from post like this on MN

ChestnutStuffing · 10/01/2021 18:12

It's not great to try and create panic, but I don't think you will stop people thinking and speculating about this stuff. They were initially told that the covid project would be two months, at the outside, and then it would be under control. It's clear now it will be much longer and people are worried about how long it will be.

They are also worried about the extent to which long term restrictions may become accepted as normal or just never go away again.

None of this can be discussed in terms of fact or non-fact, because it involves the future. But people will worry about the future.

Yorkshireswithallroasts · 10/01/2021 18:21

I couldn’t agree more OP. While I get that people are fearful, the pandemic has brought out a lovely shade of bell end in some folk. It’s exhausting

thefallthroughtheair · 10/01/2021 18:35

People are genuinely loving the drama - I think it gives them purpose in a society which has been suffering anomie for decades. I do wish they'd find some purpose elsewhere though and put their considerable energies into doing something more useful than quoting crap online.

Ineedalargeone · 10/01/2021 18:36

I stop going on FB. I don't have any other social media accounts. I understand some are pretty nasty, grim and full of rubbish.

I think though some are really worried and over anxious and some are just annoying. Some follow guidelines and some don't and each group gets mad at the other group. The there is the anti vax loonies... chipping up/great re-set/mind control/sheeple posts OMG don't even venture there

UpShutTheFuck · 10/01/2021 18:38

I see Birdie Friend has resurfaced today - spreading gloom and misery to all. It's so irresponsible and I hope the thread gets zapped ASAP.