Do you find this offensive?

[Besswess88]

Someone posted this in a group I am in, and I find it really offensive AIBU?!

What's so offensive? The guy loves fruit and has been craving melons all day and has finally spotted a ladys melon stall. Have you got something against men getting their 5 a day?

@Helmetbymidnight

its a stupid joke for stupid people

And this.

It reminds me of being a kid at the seaside.
If a friend posted it (depending who) I’d assume ironic these days. If it was someone much older, I’d assume their humour hadn’t moved on with the times.
I wouldn’t be offended at all. I also have big boobs.

I’m not offended a such but I do personally think it’s quite outdated and not my sense of humour.

Very dated. Like carry on films. Smutty/Saucy ‘humour’.

The joke is on the person who posted it. They are out of touch, dated and have a terrible sense of humour!

I have giant melons and find it funny.

I have quite large breasts too, but have never really received comments on them, and although it’s not fashionable i quite like Carry-On films which i associate this sort of 60s seaside postcard humour with. I think it’s a period piece of its time, not very funny, but not really something that would offend me. I guess we all bring our personal experiences to “humour”.

*its a stupid joke for stupid people

What is “offensive”?

I am not offended with it as I see it as the old fashioned seaside humour.

However, I do think it is totally sexist and it really ought to be consigned to history.

It’s so sexist.

It’s not ok at all, we need to move on from this shit.

It's vulgar and outdated. Who posts this stuff in 2021?

I think, for me, it's because the implication is that male character clearly thinks he can have a good grope of the woman rather than the "nice pair of melons" thing.

No, not offensive.

It isn't funny, it's basically seaside postcard humour which has been around for ages (the postcards were all on sale when I was a kid and I'm in my 60s now!), it's not in very good taste and a bit dated now.

But offensive? No. Just ignore and move on.

No,

Being offended is a choice.

To be fair a it's choice by some people to find something offensive in almost everything.

@SoupDragon totally.

Aged and in bad taste. Probably loved by those who think Mrs Brown's Boys is a comedy.

@Gobbycop

No,

Being offended is a choice.

To be fair a it's choice by some people to find something offensive in almost everything.

I'm not bothered by this card but I really don't agree that being offended is a choice.

Being offended is not a choice, what a ridiculous comment.

It comes from an era that’s had its day. I’m not offended but it would depend on the context of when and how that image was used.

YABU! Goodness me @Besswess88 you’re in for a hard life if you find that offensive.

He’s now deleted it (after I and others pulled him up on it) and posted another post about people having no sense of humour 🤣🤣

It’s just a dated card.

Because it’s so smutty and it absolutely objectifies women

You see I see it as the opposite, it’s making the man look like some daft single minded twat. I think it puts the man down not the woman.

It's in poor taste but I'm not offended.