Do you find this offensive?

[Besswess88]

Someone posted this in a group I am in, and I find it really offensive AIBU?!

[Nottherealslimshady]

What's so offensive? The guy loves fruit and has been craving melons all day and has finally spotted a ladys melon stall. Have you got something against men getting their 5 a day?

[TheRealJeanLouise]

@Helmetbymidnight

its a stupid joke for stupid people

And this.

[icelollycraving]

It reminds me of being a kid at the seaside.
If a friend posted it (depending who) I’d assume ironic these days. If it was someone much older, I’d assume their humour hadn’t moved on with the times.
I wouldn’t be offended at all. I also have big boobs.

[Sparklesocks]

I’m not offended a such but I do personally think it’s quite outdated and not my sense of humour.

[LondonlovesLola]

Very dated. Like carry on films. Smutty/Saucy ‘humour’.

The joke is on the person who posted it. They are out of touch, dated and have a terrible sense of humour!

[Chickenfingers]

I have giant melons and find it funny.

[RubaiyatOfAnyone]

I have quite large breasts too, but have never really received comments on them, and although it’s not fashionable i quite like Carry-On films which i associate this sort of 60s seaside postcard humour with. I think it’s a period piece of its time, not very funny, but not really something that would offend me. I guess we all bring our personal experiences to “humour”.

[LondonlovesLola]

*its a stupid joke for stupid people

[flaviaritt]

What is “offensive”?

[SoupDragon]

I am not offended with it as I see it as the old fashioned seaside humour.

However, I do think it is totally sexist and it really ought to be consigned to history.

[Besswess88]

It’s so sexist.

It’s not ok at all, we need to move on from this shit.

[NewlyGranny]

It's vulgar and outdated. Who posts this stuff in 2021?

[SoupDragon]

I think, for me, it's because the implication is that male character clearly thinks he can have a good grope of the woman rather than the "nice pair of melons" thing.

[WanderingMilly]

No, not offensive.

It isn't funny, it's basically seaside postcard humour which has been around for ages (the postcards were all on sale when I was a kid and I'm in my 60s now!), it's not in very good taste and a bit dated now.

But offensive? No. Just ignore and move on.

[Gobbycop]

No,

Being offended is a choice.

To be fair a it's choice by some people to find something offensive in almost everything.

[Besswess88]

@SoupDragon totally.

[nosswith]

Aged and in bad taste. Probably loved by those who think Mrs Brown's Boys is a comedy.

[PrincessNutNut]

@Gobbycop

No,

Being offended is a choice.

To be fair a it's choice by some people to find something offensive in almost everything.

I'm not bothered by this card but I really don't agree that being offended is a choice.

[Besswess88]

Being offended is not a choice, what a ridiculous comment.

[justanotherneighinparadise]

It comes from an era that’s had its day. I’m not offended but it would depend on the context of when and how that image was used.

[TheRealHousewife]

YABU! Goodness me @Besswess88 you’re in for a hard life if you find that offensive.

[Besswess88]

He’s now deleted it (after I and others pulled him up on it) and posted another post about people having no sense of humour 🤣🤣

[Rachie1973]

It’s just a dated card.

[Bluntness100]

Because it’s so smutty and it absolutely objectifies women

You see I see it as the opposite, it’s making the man look like some daft single minded twat. I think it puts the man down not the woman.

[IMNOTSHOUTING]

It's in poor taste but I'm not offended.