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DD lesbian music (lightheated)

103 replies

StevieNicksister · 04/11/2020 11:49

So. My lovely daughter is 14.

She has always dropped hints of questioning her sexuality, to be honest i just thought it was a phase so i let her get on with it.
She had a crush on a boy a while ago but she said she liked him because he looked very very feminine and it never went further than liking to look at him, which i understand and didnt give much thought.

She is now getting into music, specifically classic rock which is undeniably full of hot men!! Blush
i half expected her to message me one day and tell me how she likes David Bowie/George Harrison/Bob Dylan etc because i certainly did Grin

But no... My husband just had to introduce her to Patti Smith out of all people!!!! Shock
And now i have to listen to her gritty, nails on a chalkboard voice every day...
And now i have an out and proud lesbian daughter!! Shock [grın]
Apparantly the ´beautiful´ Patti has finally helped her realize that she is, after all, a lesbian.

Cue DH showing her KD fucking LANG!!!
if i have to hear bloody blummin miss shitaleine again i will combust!!!!

i am a straight woman in my fourties and no way do i have any prejudice against gay women but no way do i want redondo beach playing in my car via bluetooth [grın]

AIBU?

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StevieNicksister · 04/11/2020 11:50

Grin not [grln] sorry!!

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MustardMitt · 04/11/2020 11:53

I don’t really know what you’re talking about. I think it’s to be expected that mothers and daughters don’t have the same taste in music, or the same pop idols.

SockDrawer · 04/11/2020 11:55

Girl in Red seem to me massive with lesbian/bi teenagers at the moment according to TikTok!

Covidasaurus · 04/11/2020 11:55

Ha! :)

She needs some more current lesbian tunes ...

StevieNicksister · 04/11/2020 11:56

i know. i know... Just needed to vent. wipes sweat off of forehead Grin

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ClementineWoolysocks · 04/11/2020 11:56

What are you even talking about? If your only criteria for liking music is because the singer is hot then I think there's something wrong with you.

StevieNicksister · 04/11/2020 11:57

@SockDrawer Shes the one who sings bout girls in button up shirt isnt she?? Grin

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SockDrawer · 04/11/2020 11:59

Hahah yes that’s right. I can she she’s already playing those on repeat then!

Boom45 · 04/11/2020 12:00

Are you complaining that her music tastes have changed? And do you think that's because she's a lesbian? Or do you just not like female singers?
I know you said lighthearted but I'm not sure what you're being lighthearted about.

StevieNicksister · 04/11/2020 12:00

@ClementineWoolysocks its all lighthearted. Dont worry Grin

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Covidasaurus · 04/11/2020 12:02

I have a gay daughter so I feel ya Wink

Girl in Red is actually not bad...

notquiteruralbliss · 04/11/2020 12:02

You are definitely unreasonable not to love Patti Smith

StevieNicksister · 04/11/2020 12:03

@Covidasaurus She seems like a nice young woman to be honest Smile

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Kittykat93 · 04/11/2020 12:07

I'd find it weirder if she said she fancied David Bowie tbh.. He's an old dead man

JenniferFromTheBlock · 04/11/2020 12:08

I wish I'd been out and proud at 14, how wonderful to feel that freedom. Not sure about her taste in music, but maybe she's searching for her identity in music, who knows. Only the start of life's zigzag path, could be worse Grin

ClementineWoolysocks · 04/11/2020 12:08

[quote StevieNicksister]@ClementineWoolysocks its all lighthearted. Dont worry Grin[/quote]
What's lighthearted? You haven't said anything that makes a lick of sense.

StevieNicksister · 04/11/2020 12:10

@Kittykat93 He was gorgeous in labyrinth... iyswim Blush

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SockDrawer · 04/11/2020 12:12

@ClementineWoolysocks are you ok?

Whysrumgone · 04/11/2020 12:12

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StevieNicksister · 04/11/2020 12:14

@Whysrumgone Thank you Smile

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CorianderBlues · 04/11/2020 12:15

@Kittykat93

I'd find it weirder if she said she fancied David Bowie tbh.. He's an old dead man
EVERYBODY fancies/fancied David Bowie. The man was beautiful.
ClementineWoolysocks · 04/11/2020 12:16

[quote Whysrumgone]@ClementineWoolysocks get off the thread then if you can’t follow it. Go be nasty elsewhere, you’re boring the tits off everyone[/quote]
Nasty, seriously?

notacooldad · 04/11/2020 12:19

Patti Smith is awesome!

StevieNicksister · 04/11/2020 12:20

i cant stand Patti Smith!!

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ValidUser · 04/11/2020 12:24

I'm happy for your DD.

I sympathise with your ears.