DD lesbian music (lightheated)

[StevieNicksister]

So. My lovely daughter is 14.

She has always dropped hints of questioning her sexuality, to be honest i just thought it was a phase so i let her get on with it.
She had a crush on a boy a while ago but she said she liked him because he looked very very feminine and it never went further than liking to look at him, which i understand and didnt give much thought.

She is now getting into music, specifically classic rock which is undeniably full of hot men!!
i half expected her to message me one day and tell me how she likes David Bowie/George Harrison/Bob Dylan etc because i certainly did

But no... My husband just had to introduce her to Patti Smith out of all people!!!!
And now i have to listen to her gritty, nails on a chalkboard voice every day...
And now i have an out and proud lesbian daughter!! [grın]
Apparantly the ´beautiful´ Patti has finally helped her realize that she is, after all, a lesbian.

Cue DH showing her KD fucking LANG!!!
if i have to hear bloody blummin miss shitaleine again i will combust!!!!

i am a straight woman in my fourties and no way do i have any prejudice against gay women but no way do i want redondo beach playing in my car via bluetooth [grın]

AIBU?

I love KD. Having said that, the old 70s music - Meg Christian, Peggy Seeger and so on is the best.

Here's an introduction.

Get her into LP - stunning voice and hot lesbian with an extremely hot lesbian girlfriend
Also Tash Sultana who possibly embodies the spirit of jimi Hendrix and Patti Smith in the body of a hot lesbian (though she calls herself non binary so steer DD away from googling her too much)

Be grateful your husband hasn't heard of courtney Barnet

Oh, thank you for reccomendations.
i will show Dh to introduce to her

Oh this brings back memories! Patti Smith and Tegan and Sara were my go tos when I was a working out that I was bisexual. Also X Ray Spex and Siouxsie and the Banshees.

i'd prefer to bed KD Lang than Bowie and I'm straight!!

I love Patti Smith! Does she like Stevie Nicks?

Introduce her to t.a.tu?

@FrankieChips Everybody loves Stevie nicks!! She grew up on Fleetwood Mac

@ValidUser

I'm happy for your DD.

I sympathise with your ears.

I agree with this

LP

Christine

How about Halestorm? Lzzy Hale is bi and sings great songs for women of all sexualities

Your dh sounds like a lovely dad :)

If you introduce your dd to music you do like, maybe she'll start playing that instead? My ex used to roll his eyes when me and the kids sang along to my collection of tunes (basically That's What I Call Music Gay Men Love). But he didn't offer a single alternative...

Otherwise just get her some decent headphones. Great Xmas present.

It’s all Girl in Red as far as I know
A girl asked DD (straight) if she was into Girl in red and when she said yes asked her out. DD was a bit baffled until she found out it was supposedly “lesbian” music

I don't see whats lighthearted about stereotyping an artists music because of their sexuality.

What next, "banter" about black musicians being great at rap but shit at playing classical?

Is their such a thing as lesbian music, I thought all music was for everyone.

Is their such a thing as lesbian music

Yeah. Recognised genre in the 70s. Especially Olivia records.

OMG. I LOVE LP. Brilliant! Such a find! Thank you!

You can either expose her to greater and greater music and hope she picks up on the best or sadly realise she has your DH's musical taste. If you suspect she is reacting negatively to your taste for some reason then you could feed your choices to your DH then patio him later.

Women (and men) who write their own songs, play their own instruments, and seek to portray a message in their songs.

What would you rather- some bad karaoke like Little Mix, or some misogynistic rap?

Ha ha Patti Smith is the pits (and like you I love Dylan). If you want some more tuneful lesbian music, I recommend that you point her towards the Brazilian singer Daniela Mercury.

Katy Perry, 'I kissed a girl', and going back a bit in time, K D Lang.

Introduce her to Tracey Chapman. Job done.

Cornetto Barnetto is on constantly in our house, Lesbian daughter, muso DH.

Im grateful she doesn’t like Patti Smith too or Id have to leave, taking One Direction loving tween DD2 with me.

Try Cancel Tomorrow - the bassist is a lesbian and is gorgeous

This is a fucking wierd thread.
I mean I'll admit I'm not a lesbian so I didn't realise lesbians had an appoved playlist, but then I wasn't picking out what music my teenagers were supposed to listen to either.