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You're white. You haven't experienced racism

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PatricksRum · 04/06/2020 00:29

I'm so sick of repeating myself today.
AIBU or is ignorance just bliss?

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redbigbananafeet · 04/06/2020 00:32

I'm white. Lived in an Arabic African country and was treated differently because of the colour of my skin.

schoolsoutforcovid · 04/06/2020 00:33

What is your AIBU?

Mybrowneyedgal · 04/06/2020 00:33

UANBU.

PatricksRum · 04/06/2020 00:34

That's racial prejudice. Not racism.

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PatricksRum · 04/06/2020 00:34

AIBU to keep repeating this again and again or should I just leave them to their ignorance as it is bliss.

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schoolsoutforcovid · 04/06/2020 00:36

Didn't see the comment YANBU

schoolsoutforcovid · 04/06/2020 00:37

Keep fucking shouting it if able. If not, I hope you're ok xx

ItsInTheShed · 04/06/2020 00:37

What are you going to repeat it ‘again and again’ to? What are you responding to?

ExShield · 04/06/2020 00:38

Absolutely agree.

PatricksRum · 04/06/2020 00:38

@schoolsoutforcovid Thank you! Solidarity. I'm at my wits end fighting this

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PatricksRum · 04/06/2020 00:40

@ItsInTheShed White people on fb and similar in response to "This was terrible BUT... He was a threat. I have experienced racism from a black guy in Manchester."

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CayrolBaaaskin · 04/06/2020 00:40

@PatricksRum - you can just keep repeating the same thing but it won’t make it true. Racial prejudice and racism are the same thing.

I have lived in countries where I am a visible minority and have suffered racism.

emptyplinth · 04/06/2020 00:42

How can you possibly know if people have experienced racism or not?
You sound... blissful

PatricksRum · 04/06/2020 00:43

@CayrolBaaaskin Racism is racial prejudice + power.
We, as ethnic minorities, know you hold the power. You enslaved us. You still do. You hold all the keys.
I'm truly sorry that your white supremecy is preventing you from seeing reality.

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redbigbananafeet · 04/06/2020 00:43

Patricksrum Can you explain what you believe the difference to be please?

PatricksRum · 04/06/2020 00:44

@emptyplinth White people are the ethnic majority. It's simply not possible.

Why, again, am I forced to educate you? This is not my duty.

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biglittlemedium · 04/06/2020 00:44

I’m white and when I lived abroad for the best part of a decade I certainly did experience racism, in a country known for it.

CandyLeBonBon · 04/06/2020 00:44

@PatricksRum I'm sorry you feel unheard. I'm listening

7Days · 04/06/2020 00:45

Travellers would beg to differ.

I see your point, but it's a bit American - centric.
Europeans have a different history, different ethnic faultlines, different relationships with minorities.

Not at all denying the difficulties and racism that black Europeans experience. But I'd be wary of seeing it from an American lens - that wont help us with our own particular difficulties and nuances.

Porcupineinwaiting · 04/06/2020 00:45

So please explain to me then, what is the difference between racism and racial prejudice? Is anti-semitism not a form of racism?

Happy to be educated (honest).

PatricksRum · 04/06/2020 00:45

@redbigbananafeet I'm so tired of explaining to YOU
GO AND RESEARCH IT
I HAVE TO FIGHT EVERYDAY TO FOR EQUAL RIGHTS

www.aclrc.com/racism-and-power

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YgritteSnow · 04/06/2020 00:46

Why, again, am I forced to educate you? This is not my duty.

But you've started a thread to do just that haven't you?

PatricksRum · 04/06/2020 00:47

@CandyLeBonBon Honestly I'm so tired. I'm so tired. So tired.
I'm crying watching dc sleep. What have I bought them into. They will have to fight the same way I did.
Sad

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nadeelia · 04/06/2020 00:47

wow I just reported you

7Days · 04/06/2020 00:47

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