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Peter Kay’s Car Share degrading women?

106 replies

ZeroOneOneTwoThree · 11/04/2020 19:06

If you haven’t already heard, Peter Kay and the BBC released a new episode of Peter Kay’s Car Share yesterday.

At about 6 minutes 53 into the episode, Peter Kay and his costar start discussing a three year old breastfeeding at soft-play.

The language used to describe something so natural was absolutely abhorrent.

Can I recommend that you listen to the piece here? www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/p088wzsg/peter-kays-car-share-audio-special

If you are as appalled as I am, can I also ask that you make a complaint here? www.bbc.co.uk/contact/complaints/make-a-complaint

There are so many things wrong with this. AIBU to think that in this day this should not have been aired?

OP posts:
Thehollyandtheirony · 11/04/2020 19:10

Can you type a summary please? I’m not in the U.K. so I can’t use i player.
Very interested in this because I love Car Share.

JKScot4 · 11/04/2020 19:13

Is nobody allowed a different opinion from you?
It’s a comedy, you know where things can be made fun of 🙄

CargoBobbie · 11/04/2020 19:17

It’s a joke. If we weren’t allowed to joke about things that may offend people then we wouldn’t have much to joke about at all.

LochJessMonster · 11/04/2020 19:20

You definitely shouldn’t watch The Inbetweeners then...

titchy · 11/04/2020 19:22

He also made joke about expressing, 9 year olds wearing crop tops, operation yew tree and Rolf Harris. Don't forget to include them in your letter.

callmeadoctor · 11/04/2020 19:22

Seemed ok to me.

StrangerDays · 11/04/2020 19:23

It's a comedy. We shouldn't police what's comedy/funny - it can be a fantastic medium for discussing a variety of issues.

What else are you offended by?!

VeganVeal · 11/04/2020 19:24

My rule of thumb is 'if it makes me laugh its okay'

Sparklesocks · 11/04/2020 19:24

I didn’t interpret it as anti women

TheWordmeister · 11/04/2020 19:25

Christ Almighty. It's a joke. It made us all laugh when we heard the line about 'hanging off her tit in Timberlands' Grin.

It's really not offensive unless you want it to be.

SissySpacekAteMyHamster · 11/04/2020 19:25

Is the OP Michael McIntyre?

Cacaca · 11/04/2020 19:26

Get an absolute grip - seriously how pathetic being offended at that.

donquixotedelamancha · 11/04/2020 19:32

My rule of thumb is 'if it makes me laugh its okay'

The problem is that a good number of MNers can't even tell something is supposed to be a joke, let alone get it.

I'll bet OP self-identifies as having a great sense of humour so this can't possibly be funny.

She probably thinks she's tolerant of difference too. People like this really have no clue.

Mrsmadevans · 11/04/2020 19:38

Thank you for the heads up OP have shared with all my friends , have mised Peter Kay so much he is so funny Grin

Justmuddlingalong · 11/04/2020 19:39

Did you immediately switch off, due to your outrage? Or did you continue to listen to see if there was anything else funny or of an equally abhorrent content that you could include in your official complaint?

pussycatinboots · 11/04/2020 19:39

YABU, we enjoyed it - especially as it must have been "rushed through" due to the current circumstances.
I was more upset reading about Benny Hill on Wikipedia after he was mentioned on the podcast. Poor bloke.

StrangerDays · 11/04/2020 19:40

have mised Peter Kay so much

Me too! He's the best comedian.

Thymelord · 11/04/2020 19:41

Jesus it was a frigging joke. I know lots of people think breastfeeding is up there with sainthood, it isnt, it was a joke. Move on.

Cherrypies · 11/04/2020 19:44

Thank you
ZeroOneOneTwoThree
Didnt know about this.
Really enjoyed it.
Dont agree with your complaint though, a bit silly really, havnt you got anything serious to moan about?

maddiemookins16mum · 11/04/2020 19:44

Thanks Op, off to watch it later.

Igotthemheavyboobs · 11/04/2020 19:46

I didn't know he had released another episode! Thanks for the heads up OP! Will watch it later.

Thymelord · 11/04/2020 19:47

Ohhhh wait, this is Peter Kay drumming up views isn't it! Hi Peter, love your work! You went to school with my ex husband 🤣🤣

Shoppingwithmother · 11/04/2020 19:47

Also, you are degrading women. The woman in this has a name, but you are choosing to call her “Peter Kay’s costar.” As if she is not a person in her own right.

If you insist on making stupid complaints about things...

ZeroOneOneTwoThree · 11/04/2020 19:48

Totally prepared to be flamed. Enjoy it if you like that type of thing, everyone has different tastes.

I’ll name change now! Blush

OP posts:
cabingirl · 11/04/2020 19:49

For those of us not in the UK -