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Peter Kay’s Car Share degrading women?

106 replies

ZeroOneOneTwoThree · 11/04/2020 19:06

If you haven’t already heard, Peter Kay and the BBC released a new episode of Peter Kay’s Car Share yesterday.

At about 6 minutes 53 into the episode, Peter Kay and his costar start discussing a three year old breastfeeding at soft-play.

The language used to describe something so natural was absolutely abhorrent.

Can I recommend that you listen to the piece here? www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/p088wzsg/peter-kays-car-share-audio-special

If you are as appalled as I am, can I also ask that you make a complaint here? www.bbc.co.uk/contact/complaints/make-a-complaint

There are so many things wrong with this. AIBU to think that in this day this should not have been aired?

OP posts:
DorisDances · 11/04/2020 19:49

Really enjoyed a lot of Peter Kay but somehow didn't feel it hit the Mark- other than the radio adverts which were hilarious!

Chillicheese123 · 11/04/2020 19:50

I think it’s funny.

Out of interest, OP, what do you find funny? If you were to watch a comedian, who would you watch? A comedy film, maybe ?

HennyPenny4 · 11/04/2020 19:51

That was a joke? And the stuff about expressing milk? Not funny in my view. Not disgusted or angered but not funny.

LoseLooseLucy · 11/04/2020 19:51

Why name change?!

I've never watched Car Share so I can't comment on the humour.

Igotthemheavyboobs · 11/04/2020 19:52

'And I can't get 4g in my bathroom 😂'

Thymelord · 11/04/2020 19:52

Oh give over, don't name change. Christ, we've all had our arses handed to us. Notch it up and move on!

Balhammom · 11/04/2020 19:55

OP really needs to get a life.

If you don’t like it, just turn the tv off.

P1nkHeartLovesCake · 11/04/2020 19:56

Well I loved it!

Also his costar is not named costar she is called Sian Gibson, and she is amazing in car share. You could of at least bothered to google her name ffs 🙄 or maybe you thought as she’s got a vagina her name wasn’t important

HavelockVetinari · 11/04/2020 19:59

Only a tiny fraction of women bf past 6 months, and there are a LOT of formula-feeders on MN with a chip on their shoulders. Don't expect a reasonable reaction here, OP.

TheWordmeister · 11/04/2020 20:00

Why on earth name change? Do you think people make a note?

Theharderiwork · 11/04/2020 20:04

Take a chill pill life is too short.

AufderAutobahn · 11/04/2020 20:16

I really enjoyed hearing that! I know some people don't like breastfeeding or childbirth being discussed for comedic purposes but I didn't hear anything nasty or disrespectful in that?

june2007 · 11/04/2020 20:18

I didn,t see it. I think the prob though is that although we joke thats part of the prob. We need to think it as normal not something to joke about.

OstrichRunning · 11/04/2020 20:25

I love Peter Kay but have to say I didn't find the bf stuff funny at all. Just seemed kind of childish and ignorant Confused

user1471565182 · 11/04/2020 20:34

Call Magnet&Steel

BackforGood · 11/04/2020 20:35

Thanks for sharing OP. Had missed that there was a new episode. Off to watch it now Smile

Cozytoesandtoast00 · 11/04/2020 20:36

Not funny.
Making breast feeding mum's feel weird in some way for feeding their child is not right. Up there with racist jokes.
I formula fed one of my children after 6 months by they way.

Sparklesocks · 11/04/2020 20:45

@Cozytoesandtoast00 I’m sorry, I understand it can be upsetting to women struggling but really don’t think it’s comparable to racism at all. That feels very flippant.

JayAlfredPrufrock · 11/04/2020 20:48

Aw. I googled earlier to see if anyone had listened.

Loved it. Close to the bone in many ways but bloody hell it made me laugh.

drunkyhumptydumpty · 11/04/2020 20:49

Not funny. Making breast feeding mum's feel weird in some way for feeding their child is not right. Up there with racist jokes.
I formula fed one of my children after 6 months by they way

Is it fuck.

Ive BF all of mine to around two. Never a drop of formula in any of them.

thewideeyedpea · 11/04/2020 20:54

Oh do fuck off..

Chillicheese123 · 11/04/2020 20:58

Comparable to racism ?! I’ve actually heard it all now 😂😂

MT2017 · 11/04/2020 20:59

Another one who didn't know it was on - thanks op! (YABU btw)

Thymelord · 11/04/2020 20:59

Only a tiny fraction of women bf past 6 months, and there are a LOT of formula-feeders on MN with a chip on their shoulders. Don't expect a reasonable reaction here, OP

Ooh yes, you've nailed it there. That's the reason people are disagreeing 🤣

QuixoticQuokka · 11/04/2020 21:06

That was meant to be a joke? Breastfeeding a three year old is perfectly natural. Then the "proper teeth" comment? Babies start getting teeth at around 6 months old when they are much too young to stop drinking milk.