I never ironed my kids clothes as babies. I iron them now as they are creased due to drying them inside. In the summer I'll only iron the odd thing. Tell her to butt out.
It never stops though. You have to grow a thicker skin. People will tell you when to wean, how to deal with bedtimes, where you are going wrong, how you are spoiling them, why the dummy needs to go, when you should be potty training, what shoes are best, why you don't need to do this that and that because they didn't do it, what nurserys, which school, what you should do to handle tanturms, why they are walking allover you, their eating schedules, when you need to square them up, their hair styles, oooo it's so fun!
Mine started whilst they were still in the womb. You don't need 4d scans, I don't like that name, you better not do this, breastfeed or bottle feed.
Just don't take any crap and keep doing it your way. Xx