to be less than thrilled that dh has just given ds his first solid food while i wasnt there

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came home from picking something up for mil, ds3 is pointing at bowl on floor. dh has shovelled a jar of apple puree into ds because he was hungry and i wasnt here to breastfeed. i have been gone an hour and fed him 5 minutes before i left so i doubt he was hungry, dh just couldnt be arsed to hold him and walk about. i know there are more important things in life but this is a bit of a milestone and i would never do something like that when he wasnt there. i am upset

he is 6 months next week so thats not the issue, apple puree was a bounty freebie, thats why it was in cupboard.

dh has just come in and asked if im annoyed, i said yes and he did a big huffy sigh and said he gives in. am now angry aswell. thoughtless git.

didnt want to not reply to your last message 3, has really helped talking things through so thanks. its not the newborn thing, he just seems to focus on ds3 and ds4 gets forgotten.

i had a fab day on sunday, dh suggested going for a walk and i didnt feel like it due to lack of sleep on sat night so i thought he would go with just ds3 as usual but he took ds4 aswell so i spent an hour in tha bath (the older 2 are away atm), cant remember the last time i could do that in the daytime. think maybe he has got the message, fingers crossed anyway

glad things are more positive!
Once things are sorted I am sure everything will get better