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To want to go up to a woman snorting cocain, who suspects she is pregnant,

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MrsScavo · 19/07/2007 20:08

grab it off her,flush it down the toilet and tell her she's an idiot?

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sazzybee · 22/07/2007 17:37

I find some of the comments on this thread utterly shocking - advise her to have a termination?!

Bloody hell - who made you god?!

Justaboutmanaging · 22/07/2007 18:53

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madamez · 22/07/2007 23:25

Mamazon:individual health and pregnancy issues aside, the majority of problems with drugs in this country are due to the il-informed and randomised laws on drug use.
Also, having children is a 'privilege'???? It's a random natural phenomenon that happens sometimes when you have sex without using contraception. It is not yet up to the government or anyone else to decide who is or is not allowed to breed.

ladylush · 22/07/2007 23:31

Chocpeanut - a lot of people take cocaine on a social basis. Weekend use. I know teachers and nurses who do, amongst others. It's not a big deal really. Never done it myself as it just doesn't appeal, and friends who used to do it no longer do now that they are mothers. However do not underestimate how pervasive it is.

MotherFunk · 22/07/2007 23:44

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Yurtgirl · 23/07/2007 00:10

Motherfunk - I really ought to go to bed but as the op seems to have disappeared I cant resist the temptation to ask what exactly is the appeal for you to take cocaine? - or any recreational drug - I dont get it.

madamez · 23/07/2007 00:40

Yurtgirl: people take recreational drugs because they find it enjoyable to do so. Some give you extra energy and confidence, some make you feel relaxed and benevolent, some make you see pink happy flying toadstools. Of course, some also make you puke like mad, give you the runs, make you see malevolent demons sitting on your feet, send you to sleep etc. Though the intention is to have a pleasant experience, having an unpleasant experience may occur instead depending on whether you bought uncontaminated drugs, whether you ate/didn't eat before ingesting what you bought, whether you were in deep pyschological distress before ingesting the substance. Etc.

MotherFunk · 23/07/2007 00:46

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expatinscotland · 23/07/2007 00:49

The problem with coke is that tens of thousands of people have been killed and/or are now living as slaves in order to get it to Westerners to put up their nose.

Why not just buy guns for cartels, it'd be more honest?

And junk. Why not just give a cash donation to terrorist organisations. Same difference.

madamez · 23/07/2007 00:58

Expat, tens of thousands of people have been killed over diamonds. Tens of thousands work in sweatshops so European people can buy t-shirts for £1. The wordlwide problems of slavery and exploitation are not just - or even mainly - due to the consumption of cocaine or heroin.

expatinscotland · 23/07/2007 01:00

Did I say they were, madame?

People don't need diamonds or cheap shite clothing anymore than they need coke or junk.

Sorry, but that argument is BS.

Because folks buy diamonds and cheap shite clothes it's okay to continue perpetuating misery for millions of people?

WTF.

Desiderata · 23/07/2007 01:02

Well, madamez. Sometimes I think you're OK and other times I think you're a piece of work.

On this thread, you're a piece of work.

Drugs are fucking shite.

expatinscotland · 23/07/2007 01:04

Aw, Des, you missed her charming comments on the Madeline McCann threads.

Particularly the ones where she said she didn't give a fuck about anyone's kid.

Nice to know there's so much compassion left in the world.

Hey, there's always Morris dancing .

Desiderata · 23/07/2007 01:07

Ah, I didn't go on the MM threads, so I missed that.

I think that Madamez agreed with me once, about something, and you know how pathetically endearing that can be!

Desiderata · 23/07/2007 01:08

Oh, Morris dancing

Shall we start with the Upton-on-Severn?

MotherFunk · 23/07/2007 01:08

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harrypotterdies · 23/07/2007 01:09

"expat, tens of thousands of people have been killed over diamonds. Tens of thousands work in sweatshops so European people can buy t-shirts for £1. The wordlwide problems of slavery and exploitation are not just - or even mainly - due to the consumption of cocaine or heroin."

even though you are clearly a fuit Madamez, your fruity arguments always come across as a well researched POV.

your argument above is just shit - shame on you - you can't say one thing is ok becuase another thing is worse. you get a E for effort - do better next time you loon

Desiderata · 23/07/2007 01:16
madamez · 23/07/2007 01:18

Expat and others: so do you all produce all your own food then? Are you sure that no slave labour was involved in putting sugar in your tea or dinner on your table? How about your cars? How many people have died in battles over oil producing territory? Obviously one could go on forever along these lines, but I've yet to hear an argument against recreational drug use - as oppsed to the problems caused by the prohibitons on recreationla drug use - by consenting adults that's actually valid.

harrypotterdies · 23/07/2007 01:19

i can't spell and use grammar sparingly. i also let my 5 year old watch power rangers and didn't breastfeed. i can't cook, wont cook and have better thing to do than worry that chicken nuggets from birds eye are going to give my kids cancer when they are 43

harrypotterdies · 23/07/2007 01:20

madamez - what is your argument? it sound like your sayin drug use is ok becuase other exploitation of people , goods and services takes place in other areas.

what a shit argument

Desiderata · 23/07/2007 01:23

I'll give you an argument about it.

  1. Daniella Westbrooke's nose.

  2. Do you have any notion of how ridiculous you appear to others when you're high?

  3. A good friend of mine has a 19 year old son with a skunk habit. He was a perfectly amiable and well-balanced child. However, his habit has made him psychotic. He is now in a mental institution, and they don't think he will ever come out.

I smoke and I like a drink. But neither of these things send me on a one-way-ticket to cloud fucking cuckoo land.

madamez · 23/07/2007 01:25

HPD: my argument is that condeming recreationl drug use because the production of recreational drugs may be exploitative is not a valid argument for singling out recreational drug use as the epitomy of evil.

MotherFunk · 23/07/2007 01:25

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