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To all how much weight you gained during pregnancy?

93 replies

Aimily · 06/05/2019 18:07

It's not really unreasonable, more nosey.

I'm 29 +4 and have only gained half a stone on my pre-pregnancy weight. Approx 1 stone in total as I lost half a stone in the first trimester with morning sickness.

I'm starting to feel unnerved with this weight gain as even though my midwife said everything is on track, quite a few people have commented on how small I still am for how far gone I am.

So just to calm my crazy hormones a bit, can I asked what you gained in your first pregnancy?

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EdWinchester · 06/05/2019 18:09

I gained 21lbs each time even though first baby was a whopper and second much smaller.

disneyprincess87 · 06/05/2019 18:11

5 stone but I ate what I wanted and didn't care, still loosing it now 2 years later 😂

Hopefullyberidingsoon · 06/05/2019 18:12

I gained 4 stone with first 😮🙁 and three with second. Never overweight or obese prior to pregnancy. Spent 7 months feeling quite literally starving hungry and lost track of what Zi was gaining. Have never managed to lose it all.

ooopsupsideyourhead · 06/05/2019 18:13

I gained nothing - but had hyperemesis. So, once I gave birth I weighed less than I did at first appointment weighing in.

What was the killer for me was maternity leave. I gained three stone - a combination of finally being able to eat, some PND, my days having no real routine and a baby that didn’t sleep meaning I reached for sugar and fat.

ShinyTheMom · 06/05/2019 18:13

i gained 160 pounds during my pregnancy, thanks to all the McDonald’s cravings.

CatstorTroy · 06/05/2019 18:13

4 stone all in the last 3 months.

kaytee87 · 06/05/2019 18:14

3 stone Blush not to be recommend.

If your midwife isn't worried then just try to be thankful you'll be nice and slim once the baby is born.

Willowkoko · 06/05/2019 18:14

First pregnancy at 25, I gained 15-20 pounds I was small for the entire pregnancy, no big deal DD was a healthy 8lb.

Currently 18 weeks pregnant with twins, gained 25-30 pounds 😅 hoping it all baby...

kaytee87 · 06/05/2019 18:14

The only time i didn't feel sick was when i was eating.

Houseonahill · 06/05/2019 18:15

I was like you didn't gain any weight as such, just what the baby weighed and the water, came out of hospital 1lb heavier than before pregnant. I had a perfectly healthy pregnancy and baby so I wouldn't worry. People are just different.

Nuttyaboutnutella · 06/05/2019 18:15

First pregnancy, I gained about 2.5-3 stone.

Nearly 38 weeks with my second and I've gained 8kg so far.

OddCat · 06/05/2019 18:15

I weighed 9stone before I got pregnant and gained over 4 stone, baby was 8 pounds - I ate normally throughout my pregnancy .

Stroller15 · 06/05/2019 18:16

I gained 2 stone the first time, "bounced back" the first 3 months after birth, gained it again (biscuits and naps) and added another 2 stone with 2nd pregnancy.

Greeborising · 06/05/2019 18:16

First one gained 4 stone and gave birth to a 7lb baby 😳
I learnt my lesson after that!

ChinaBear · 06/05/2019 18:17

2.5 stone and it stretched my stomach into an awful apron of loose skin. I have no idea how women who gained more than that have somehow snapped back into shape 😩

Youngandfree · 06/05/2019 18:17

I gained exactly a stone each time which was strange 😂

jcq17 · 06/05/2019 18:18

I'm 29 weeks and iv gained about 11 pounds so far. Most of that within the last few weeks. I really don't want to gain more than a stone and a half!

AwkwardAsAllGetout · 06/05/2019 18:18

I gained 4 stone in my first two pregnancies. Awful to try and lose afterwards. I had dd2 three weeks ago and gained 15 pounds, and I’m now 2 pounds lighter than I was pre pregnancy. She was my biggest baby too at over 9 pounds. I wouldn’t worry. I had a growth scan towards the end as my bump measured small, but the scan revealed the whopper hiding within!

Lauren83 · 06/05/2019 18:18

3.5 1st pregnancy, had lost 2.5 by the time he was 8 months and I'm pregnant again so it's pretty much all back on again

DetectiveSantiago · 06/05/2019 18:19

16 lb with first
14 lb with second
24 lb with third (twins)

With the exception of the third, I gained pretty much no weight until about 7 months.

Jebuschristchocolatebar · 06/05/2019 18:19

Just under a stone with each pregnancy. No need to worry about your weight op. Everyone is different

tor8181 · 06/05/2019 18:20

6st with no 1 he was born 8lb 27 inches
7st with no 2 he was born 8lb10 26 inches

i go massive when pregnant as boys are very long and big

happymummy12345 · 06/05/2019 18:22

I gained 10kg. Baby was 6lb 7oz. I don't believe in eating for 2 and all that nonsense. I was careful with what I ate. I didn't want to end up huge.

Aimily · 06/05/2019 18:22

Thank you everyone, I don't think I'd quite appreciated how different everyone's body is and how much variation there can be.

I've only 'popped' in the past 2 weeks too, so it's only now that it's clear I'm pregnant whereas before I just looked bloated.

I'll try and remember if my midwife isn't worried I shouldn't be 😊

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Lauzy86 · 06/05/2019 18:23

I gave birth two weeks late and on that day I was 1st 10lb up on booking in. Baby was 8lb

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