To be upset that my friend just cheated on her husband while he is in hospital?

[milkchocolateStarryStarryNight]

I so do not know how to handle this one.
My friend just told me she met up with her ex boyfriend from long ago last night, she took him home (her dc at grandmas), they spent the night having sex, more than once, and it was so great.

Her husband is in hospital for the last two weeks with heartproblem.

By my friends own admission she will not have sex with her ex boyfriend again as husband is due out from hospital on monday, so the possibility will not lend itself.

FFS! She has been married 7 years, as a 3 your old, and she just told me she has cheated and shows no remorse? Ok, she and her dh had an open relationship before they got married and had kids, but even so?

What am I to think about this? Shall I just ignore it, or ?

...so to speak.

i take your point honoria.
so switch the word 'judging' from my posts with 'condemning'. still makes sense. in fact, s more like what iw as trying to say. thanks!

(didnt see other thing...lost there)

they had Strong Feelings for each other, as i recall Chocolate decided not to pursue it.
and now the Other Woman is flinging her sex life in C's face? now, i'm not psychologist but...

spot on honoria.

Anna, I have CAT'd you re another matter.

Quite agree HG. You can't help judging - we all have our own moral standpoint. Condemnation is another thing. From the little we have heard she doesn't sound like a shining example of pure and selfless womanhood but we don't know everything.

yes.
what ormirion said.

and OH! right. yes, that does put another complexion on things... cor, if this is games shes playing to wind you up, boy you had a lucky escape not getting 'involved' with her!

NightyNight - OK, am waiting to receive

Thanks for your support and understanding, guys...

Finally putting all this firmly behind me.