To make my child pay for dog care?

[PinkLady01]

We have DD aged 23 living with us as well as a DS aged 14 and 2 family dogs. When my daughter moves out the dogs will stay with us, they aren’t her dogs specifically.

When we go away DD looks after the dogs for us, although I do have to pay for dog day care as she’s at work full time and can’t come back during the day. If we go away all together as a family AIBU to ask her to contribute to the dog boarding cost?

Yes yabu

Of course you are BU. They aren't her dogs.

Completely unreasonable if they aren’t her dogs.

Omg. Yes YABU!!!!!!!

Yes. They’re not her dogs.

They aren’t her dogs. Why on earth should she pay for them?!

Yes of course YABU! They're your dogs!!

Why on earth would she pay?

tbh I just add the cost of dog bording onto the overall holiday cost. its eye watering high where we are though £850.00 last time. weep. though kennels would have been cheaper thats not an option for me.

YABU they are your dogs

Errrm, yabu. Not her dogs. She won’t take them with her when she moves out. Surprised you’d even think of asking, tbh.

Yes you ABU. You said they weren't her dogs and were family dogs!

So...
In 23 years you never went on a family holiday?

YABU Jesus

Yabu you said yourself that they aren't her dogs specifically. She's doing you a favour looking after them when you are away without her.

Agree that they are your dogs, so you pay.

Lol how did you come up with such an idea?

Of course YABU! They're not her dogs. Just because she's looked after them before, doesn't mean she has a responsibility to pay when she can't!

Reverse?

Did she buy the dogs? I can't see why you think this would be a reasonable ask.

Jesus.

your dogs, you pay.

Reverse. Has to be!

If this isn't a reverse, then you're being utterly ridiculous.

wow YABU