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To feel a bit eeww

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MrDarceysMistress · 03/09/2018 20:37

Name change for this one

I think I might be overreacting Blush have been seeing a guy for just over a month, everything going swimmingly, he’s smart, funny, kind, cute - I’m quite a smitten kitten.

We’re messaging tonight and the subject of dick pics came up (was jokingly wondering if it’s like a selfie where you take 10 and choose your best side). He responded that he’s only sent unsolicited pics ‘when the horn was quite bad’.

I’m no prude, but unsolicited pictures of hairy willies scream sad desperation to me, as well as showing quite a disrespectful attitude towards the intended recipient. I’m all for a bit of sexy FaceTime with someone I’m committed to, but over dating apps? Ewwww

It’s really making me think differently of him. Am I overreacting?? Hmm

OP posts:
Ellen7262 · 03/09/2018 20:39

Eewwwwww too. Nothing worse than a dick pic!

HPLikecraft · 03/09/2018 20:40

Gross.

YANBU.

VimFuego101 · 03/09/2018 20:41

YANBU. I don't know anyone who's ever responded positively to unsolicited pics like that... why do they do it?

rosalife · 03/09/2018 20:41

Well I think it's better that he's honest that he has done it rather than act like oh god no, I would never do that.

rosalife · 03/09/2018 20:42

But if it's a deal breaker for you, then at least you know.

HollowTalk · 03/09/2018 20:42

But why were you talking to him about it, OP? Who brought it up (so to speak!)?

Largepiecesofcrookedwood · 03/09/2018 20:42

I got one once, absolutely no idea who it was from Confused
Was quite a shock over my Horlicks I can tell you

Padparadscha · 03/09/2018 20:43

Just to clarify, you’re smitten with a guy who sends random women a picture of his penis? And you need MN to tell you if you’re overreacting to finding out your boyfriend is a sexual harasser? Seriously?

pictish · 03/09/2018 20:43

Yuck no, you’re not! Why does he think anyone would want to receive that because he’s horny? What did he get out of it?
I’d be put off by that as well.

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MrDarceysMistress · 03/09/2018 20:43

@vin that’s what I don’t get. Do men really think we’ll be so overcome with lust that we’ll just jump on Confused so add bad judgement to the eeeww

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MarthasGinYard · 03/09/2018 20:43

'I’m quite a smitten kitten. '
Eeeewwww

pictish · 03/09/2018 20:45

I don’t think they do it to turn us on...it is well known that dick pics are an absolute no no. I think they do it for their own gratification. They like to shock, disturb and control. They get off on it.

EdWinchester · 03/09/2018 20:45

I’m quite a smitten kitten

Are you both very young?

pictish · 03/09/2018 20:46

Ach come on...don’t bitch at the OP for her turn of phrase. That’s not nice.

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MrDarceysMistress · 03/09/2018 20:47

It was I who bought it up Blush but in a jokey ‘what are the sad losers who do this thinking’ kinda way. Just in a general chat about the horrors of OLD. Didn’t expect him to quite unconceredly come out with ‘oh I’ve done it’. This is a professional man in his 30’s...

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MarthasGinYard · 03/09/2018 20:47

Sorry Pictish

It popped me over the edge

MarthasGinYard · 03/09/2018 20:49

I'm guessing that he hasn't 'got the horn bad' yetConfused

Or he'd have adorned you with some of these treats

MrsMozart · 03/09/2018 20:50

Bleugh Envy

Aaaahfuck · 03/09/2018 20:52

HollowTalk
Why does it matter who brought it up or why they were talking about it?

OP it's fucking gross it would be a deal breaker for me. Unsolicited dick pics are sexual harassment. I wouldn't want to be with someone who had done that to other women.

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MrDarceysMistress · 03/09/2018 20:56

@marthas no, it seems I’m unworthy of hairy knob pictures.

Not apologising for smitten kitten. Rhyming Pairs make me smile. For instance thoughts of lick dick change to sick dick escalating to kick dick

so sorry but best I could come up with at short notice

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MrsArthurShappey · 03/09/2018 21:11

Dick pics are the new flashing, I reckon.

MrsStrowman · 03/09/2018 21:13

Solicited or mutually agreed, I think each to their own, although a penis isn't usually the most attractive thing about a man, unsolicited ewwwww

Twotailed · 03/09/2018 21:13

An unsolicited dick pic is sexual harassment so YADNBU Envy

DieAntword · 03/09/2018 21:14

Are you sure he wasn’t trying to make a flop of a joke? If not then totally ewww.

deepsea · 03/09/2018 21:15

🤮 I really wouldn’t want to be with a man who did this. Really truly foul. Up to you but the hairy hills are that way 👉🏻

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