to expect a friend to put her DD's wee filled potty down the toilet and NOT my kitchen sink.....

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....with dishes still in it she didn't even move them just poured the wee over them!

does anyone else think this is a bit Eeeewwwwwwww? i think she noticed my expression and said 'oh sorry don't you do that' to which i said 'no normally just put down the loo actually'.

Its not a friendship ruiner by any means i was just a bit surprised that people do this (but i am a clean freak admittidly). Am i off the mark here is this normal?

Hmm

Slatternly at the very least

Your friend needs an Anthea Turner DVD

I would've picked a cup out of the sink and offered to make her some tea in it.

Ewwwww!

OMG {boak} I would be freaking but I am a clean freak............

nooooooooooo.. that's vile and gross and disgusting!!!! I had a friend who did this and it was years before I had a drink or anything in her house for this very reason [puke smiley]

yuck
you are not being unreasonable
yuck yuck yuck

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I am not a clean freak but even I am freaking out about that!

That is soooooooooo groooossssssssssssssssss.

Think it's pretty poor if there were dishes in the sink... Probably wouldn't phase me too much if the sink was empty as you can just rinse with disinfectant...

Vile. i will only flush potties down toilet.

Never a sink.

Bleugggggghhhh

puke puke yuck

god i'm glad its not just me it was the way she said 'oh don't you do that' which worried me - she's invited us for tea next week too....

No, the presence of the dishes only makes it unspeakably bad. Even if the sink was clear, it surely cannot be reasonable to pour potty contents down it? You don't wee in the sink do you?

not unreasonable, ewww

Perhaps you should offer to bring some food with you!

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Well, take your own dishes certainly!

yeah i have done that Mumpbump as i said its no friendship breaker i would have preffered her to at least move the cups and plates out of the way first though

I can see why she would think it would be alright as...

"Normal urine is sterile. It contains fluids, salts, and waste products, but it is free of bacteria, viruses, and fungi."

I have held my DD over our empty clean kitchen sink to wee a couple of times, when she was tiny (10 weeks old, before we bought a potty for her) but I cleaned the sink well before reusing it.

That said I would certainly not empty my DD's potty into a kitchen sink and not a full sink which belongs to a friend.

do it at home but would never at someone elses.

i tend to try and avoid the dishes too

its not the food i'm worried about cornsilk it what she puts them on

Hate to think what would of happened if her DD had done a poo.....

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ha, i weed in the sink once when i was a student and the bathroom was occupied for hours by one shagging couple..!

God i am gross.

no

I would be fine with it if the sink was empty
Over the dishes is yuck

I like Chugnuts' response