to expect a friend to put her DD's wee filled potty down the toilet and NOT my kitchen sink.....

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....with dishes still in it she didn't even move them just poured the wee over them!

does anyone else think this is a bit Eeeewwwwwwww? i think she noticed my expression and said 'oh sorry don't you do that' to which i said 'no normally just put down the loo actually'.

Its not a friendship ruiner by any means i was just a bit surprised that people do this (but i am a clean freak admittidly). Am i off the mark here is this normal?

gross imo
just how far away was the loo that it was a better idea to pour it over dishes or not. even if you can disinfect a sink why should she be making extra work for you.
I'd avoid cups of tea in her house mind as you never know what else she might have thrown away
I know pee's meant to be sterile but come on

I don't have a down stairs loo (actually i do but its an outside loo - old house) but its only up one flight of stairs to the bathroom

bleaugh! That is horrid. I wouldn't do it at home myself and there is NO WAY I would do it at someone elses house! Eeek! that the dishes in the sink didn't even make her think twice!!!

yuck

Not unreasonable.

And you seem to have taken it rather better than I would!

NOt a clean freak, but defiantely not something I would like to happen in my house...shudder!
When I used to work in the Nursing Home a lot of the other careworker/Nurses would put the Pee bottles down the sinks (in the Bathrooms...but still)....and it really didn't sit right with me!

am and - that is just unbelievable.

will be showing it to dh to prove to him that there are worse out there than me..

omg

omg you lot are unbelievable - you kick off over the slightest thing.

I mean, wee on dishes in the sink? Hello! Why do you think dishwasher rinse aid is yellow - because it's made of custard? You're complaining now but I bet those glasses are sparkling.

Really, folk, get a grip.

That is really gross, what planet does she come from?

When I was growing up, there was a saying at local pools - I don't swim in your toilet so please don't pee in my pool - maybe your friend need some lessons.

You are so not being unreasonable!

pmsl wandering trolley

lol wandering.

in response to the OP... eeeeeewwwwwww.

I wonder if it occurred to your friend that what she did was a bit embarrassing later? Maybe even now she is curled up with mortification.

No YANBU - I had a friend who did this regularly and it used to make me retch. It got to the stage where I would whisk the potty out from under her dd just as she finished and chuck it out the back door because I was so crap and never said anything.

i doubt it she's very laid back nightynight don't suppose she'll give it a second thought, but next time i'll make sure all potty's stay in the bathroom

It's disrespectful to you and plain rude.

i'm a complete slattern and this is eeeeeeerrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhhhhhh

what on earth?

That is nasty. I would have had to say something to her

Yanbu, no no no not at all. I'm afraid I would have had to say something to the friend. I wouldn't have been able to stop myself. (And I'm not by any stretch of the imagination a clean freak either). TBH I have never known anyone, even the most serious slovenly slatterns, empty potties down the kitchen sink. Her behaviour is freakish. I'm getting quite worked up on your behalf!!

Don't worry DH hopefully its just a one off (in my house anyway!)

can some explain to me what YANBU is?

Eee yuck!

EEEEEEEEEEEEUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry don;t know why it looked like that - hat;s not how I posted it but I think you get the message!

You are not being unreasonable (YANBU)