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Pissed off by how many holidays she goes on?

140 replies

LuxeLisbon · 21/06/2018 19:05

She works part time in a minimum wage job and he’s unemployed ... yet they are probably on their 10th holiday of the year.

He’s a well known dealer in this area.

Just shit to see people benefiting from pretty much ruining lives

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SoddingUnicorns · 21/06/2018 21:30

Op, so every police officer is corrupt?

That’s not what OP said. And it’s about as ridiculous as asking if every one is fantastic and amazing. They’re a group of people. Nobody is perfect, some will be incredible, some will be shite.

Nicknacky · 21/06/2018 21:33

sodding she said if people didn’t think the police were corrupt then they were deluded. She didn’t ask if people thought SOME police were corrupt. She commented as a collective group.

LuxeLisbon · 21/06/2018 21:33

1) Go to the police
2) Move somewhere else
3) if you don’t choose option 1 or option 2 then stop complaining.

1 - To achieve what?
2 - Drugs are everywhere
3 - I can complain about whatever I want. It’s called being human. We complain about the weather all the time, can’t change it can we?

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endofthelinefinally · 21/06/2018 21:35

The police probably know exactly who they are. But they can't do anything until they can get evidence, proof.
Al Capone was finally arrested on a charge of tax evasion. Until then everyone knew what he was doing but couldn't get him.
These people are literally untouchable.

Nicknacky · 21/06/2018 21:36

So don’t waste your time letting it bother you if you don’t want to do anything. It’s wasted emotion.

SoddingUnicorns · 21/06/2018 21:36

she said if people didn’t think the police were corrupt then they were deluded. She didn’t ask if people thought SOME police were corrupt. She commented as a collective group

I think that entirely depends on who you are, where you’re from and mostly what colour your skin is. As an institution, the police have a long way to go with regards to POC.

Nicknacky · 21/06/2018 21:39

sodding You clearly have a long standing gripe with the police and there is nothing I can say that will change that.

LuxeLisbon · 21/06/2018 21:39

He’s been arrested before, he’s still out and dealing.

I know someone who literally tortured people he burgled. Didn’t stop him eating McDonald’s in his prison cell.

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Nicknacky · 21/06/2018 21:41

Yes, most of them do come out and continue. That’s not unusual.

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SoddingUnicorns · 21/06/2018 21:47

Nice of you to label DV, rape, a disabled child being bullied and driven from his home a “minor complaint” or “irritating”. Either that or you didn’t understand the word you used.

Pissed off by how many holidays she goes on?
SoddingUnicorns · 21/06/2018 21:49

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willworkforwine · 21/06/2018 21:50

Sadly there are always parents like this!

We know if a couple who he is a big drink driver we have reported to police multiple times also small time dealer (I know as I was offered coke one night when we were friends!). Nobody has that much coke!

They seem to live a life of Riley! I hope karma gets them but they have managed to get away with it so far!

Reporting the drink driving to police along with the drug selling not enough appetite for them to
Do anything! Even though they have had issues with police for violence before! Scary 😢😢😢

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FatBarry · 21/06/2018 21:53

DD is in a major uni city, the dealers hand their business cards out. It's incredible, "Joe, call me for weed, coke, ket, mdma, meow meow 07591 xxxxxx"

Delivers on a bmx.

My boss's daughter is a coke addict, she pays for her drugs by bank transfer. My boss went to the police with all their bank details, they weren't interested in the little guys. They said the problem was huge so are after the big shots.

May as well be a dealer, seems like it's an acceptable profession Shock

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Racecardriver · 21/06/2018 21:54

So you won't report criminal activity to the police. You won't start your own drug business because you are apparent to principled (but not principled enough to go to the police). And you won't shack up with a drug dealer either (again because you are slightly principled). I think you need to stop whining.

SoddingUnicorns · 21/06/2018 21:54

Anyway, sorry for the derail OP. I’m out.

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areyoubeingserviced · 21/06/2018 21:56

Drug dealers will eventually get their comeuppance, mark my words.

Troels · 21/06/2018 21:59

Report him to HMRC, living a lifestyle that is so much more expensive that the amount of money earned is a nice big red flag for an investigation. You don't have to mention drug dealing. Most, if not all couples living on a part time minimum wage job can't afford multiple nice holidays.

AlonsosLeftPinky · 21/06/2018 22:06

So is your problem that her partner is a drug dealer?

Or is it that she goes on lots of holidays?