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Original poster

To have let DS have the Chinese?

86 replies

VeddersSirens · 03/06/2018 00:03

DH has been drinking wife beater all night so is generally a bit of a cunt, picking arguments, being sarcastic, heavy sighing etc

Any last night DS2 (17) stayed out at a friend's all night. We ordered takeaway, his half was still in the fridge today.

Tonight he's come home, had tonight's tea (BBQ, although not much of it) and then asked if he could have the Chinese from last night. It was his anyway so I said yes.

DH now has a face on over it, saying it's a piss take, I'm ridiculous to let him, "what a fucking carry on" etc etc ... it was his anyway!!! WIBU or is DH just being a cuntish drunken arsehole as usual?

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Marriedwithchildren5 · 03/06/2018 00:06

Um. You really need to sort out your family. Feel for your son.

HomeisbytheBay · 03/06/2018 00:08

Why would a 17yo need to ask permission to eat his food???

Original poster
VeddersSirens · 03/06/2018 00:08

"D" h is not his father

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ilovesooty · 03/06/2018 00:09

What is wife beater?

Original poster
VeddersSirens · 03/06/2018 00:09

Stella Artois

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Marriedwithchildren5 · 03/06/2018 00:10

Stella?

Jellybabie3 · 03/06/2018 00:10
Confused
Marriedwithchildren5 · 03/06/2018 00:11

Why let him drink it if he can't handle it??

kaytee87 · 03/06/2018 00:11

Well he sounds like a treat.
Why are you with this man?

Chapterandverse · 03/06/2018 00:11

What Was ds meant to be "taking the piss" over?

Teenagers eat. A lot! Surely he was "allowed" his own leftovers????

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VeddersSirens · 03/06/2018 00:11

Cos he's an adult and I don't get to make his choices for him

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MyKingdomForBrie · 03/06/2018 00:11

Do you really need to ask, he’s a total arsehole and I feel very sorry for your ds.

ilovesooty · 03/06/2018 00:12

All sounds pretty dysfunctional.

Foodissuesnoneed · 03/06/2018 00:12

Ahh, I’ve had a food drama (mini in comparison) tonight, perhaps you’ll see my thread (no idea how to post a link)
So it was your sons food anyway? But your DH had his eye on it, thinking ds would be full enough from bbq so is pissed off because ds wanted to eat his own food? Your dh is cuntish BVVU.

Stompythedinosaur · 03/06/2018 00:12

Erm, I think your dp's unpleasantness might be the issue rather than your ds.

condepetie · 03/06/2018 00:12

DH is being a dickhead, who else is going to eat it? Did he want it for later? Did he say he wanted it?

Sounds like a prize twat tbh OP

HomeisbytheBay · 03/06/2018 00:12

So why does he need to ask permission to eat his food?

Whatthequack · 03/06/2018 00:12

Tell your husband to go fuck himself, and to leave your ds alone.

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VeddersSirens · 03/06/2018 00:12

I know that's exactly what I'm saying, the Chinese was his anyway! DH is just being a twat cos he's had a few. Usual Saturday night unfortunately

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Marriedwithchildren5 · 03/06/2018 00:13

You live with him. It's called a partnership!!??

condepetie · 03/06/2018 00:14

And how is it a "fucking carry on"? Did anyone make a fuss about your son not being in last night for the takeaway?

If anyone did I bet it was DP... so who is doing the "fucking carry on"? Does he normally treat your son this way?

SleepingStandingUp · 03/06/2018 00:14

Well not sure why tippy bought him take away he wasn't home to eat, or why he then needed permission to eat it outer what your idiotH would have preferred happen or why you're with someone who is that much of an arse

kaytee87 · 03/06/2018 00:14

He's being a twat because he's a twat, not because he's been drinking.

He's telling you who he is, listen.

SleepingStandingUp · 03/06/2018 00:15

Well not sure why you bought him take away he wasn't home to eat, or why he then needed permission to eat it, or what your idiotH would have preferred happen or why you're with someone who is that much of an arse.

Or why I can't type

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VeddersSirens · 03/06/2018 00:16

Bought the Chinese before DS text to say he was staying out all night

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