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Softzilla, the police

960 replies

Unreasonableunreasonableness · 31/05/2018 16:59

I can't update just now but here's the new thread. I will update later when I can.

OP posts:
Carshopping2018 · 31/05/2018 17:43

Hope all's ok

NotARegularPenguin · 31/05/2018 17:44

Can someone link to the very first thread pls?

WorraLiberty · 31/05/2018 17:44

werideatdawn a lot of people read it as 'Wirral' and think I'm Liverpuddlian Grin

SoddingUnicorns · 31/05/2018 17:44

@candlefloozy have you read the last thread? Or any of them? The text about remembering where OP lived and coming round sounded pretty threatening. And yes, the police are needed because SZ will not listen to reason or respect that OP has cut contact.

YouAreNotImportant · 31/05/2018 17:44

I've been advised by the Police to block (not met).

MadMags gives a good summary Smile

GlitteryFluff · 31/05/2018 17:44

Hope you're ok OP.

YouAreNotImportant · 31/05/2018 17:45

No it didn't sound threatening at all. And OP didn't think she knew where she lives anyway.

AlbertaSimmons · 31/05/2018 17:46
StoorieHoose · 31/05/2018 17:46

I’m pretty sure the OP was threatened by SZ and was mentioned in an earlier thread.

MiddleClassProblem · 31/05/2018 17:47

Hope all ok x

DarlingNikita · 31/05/2018 17:47

Well she could have just blocked her after the growling incident, and the staring at her incident but she didn't

I've just said this, but again: Softzilla threatened by text to come round to OP's house, yes, but she could still come round even if she hadn't sent a text.

Rozzzzzalmost35 · 31/05/2018 17:48

Following

BlancheM · 31/05/2018 17:49

The police advised her not to block.
Nope.

TopBitchoftheWitches · 31/05/2018 17:49

worra
My experience was with Essex Police.

They initially called me back, arranged to visit me the next day (after the assault) at my home, took a 6 page statement which took 4 hours.

They then didn't track him down so 4 days later he turned up at my home. Thankfully a police marker had been placed on my number so I called 999 who kept me on the phone until he left. The police turned up about 10 mins later.

They have procedures for dealing with this.

FiestaThenSiesta · 31/05/2018 17:50

No the OP was told off the record by someone who also happens to be a police officer to not block in the last few days so that she doesn’t delete her evidence of texts/phone calls. She also specified the communication officer was going over for an informal chat, so I don’t understand the queries about why there’s no statement.

WorraLiberty · 31/05/2018 17:50

Yes but she didn't come round did she Darling? That's the whole point.

There is no way this would even make it to court, due to the OP not blocking her.

FiestaThenSiesta · 31/05/2018 17:50

Community not communication officer

HaudYerWheeshtBawbag · 31/05/2018 17:51

I think the lady unhinged, however I also think the OP is enjoying this attention, hasn’t got time for an update... however has enough time to comment on the old thread and open a new thread linking the new thread.... Hmm

15star · 31/05/2018 17:51

I don't understand why you haven't just blocked her and found a new play group. Sod all of this nonsense. Not that it adds up as the police don't even come out to burglaries and wouldn't come out when someone uninsured hit my car and drove off even though I knew where he lived! Also she hasnt threatened you and I've seen in the news women being actually stalked and the police haven't bothered

BrightYellowDaffodil · 31/05/2018 17:51

Because OP didn’t block her weeks and weeks ago, she’s now harassing her and the police went straight around even though they never visited OP or took a statement.

The police told OP not to block Softzilla. And yes, police do go round without visiting or taking a statement: I had a car driven at my horse, and another occasion when I was physically threatened by another motorist in a car park - on both occasions the police went round for a 'quiet word' without a statement from/visit to me. Both reports were made over the phone.

Also, the villain somehow telepathically knew the police were sent by OP and sent her an even more deranged text about it.

Well, if the police show up and say 'Leave Mrs So-and-So alone', it's not so difficult to work out that it's Mrs So-and-So that's probably made the complaint, is it?

WorraLiberty · 31/05/2018 17:53

Oh so the 'advice' was all off the record was it?

I'm out

In fact, I don't even know why I got 'in' to begin with, since I've been ignoring this drama for the last 2 months.

Morsecode · 31/05/2018 17:53

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MadMags · 31/05/2018 17:54

Bright, unless she sat there texting OP in front of the police then the timing is really off isn’t it?

How weird, to text abuse to the person who you’re literally being told to stop texting...

NatashaRomanov · 31/05/2018 17:54

Wow. Just caught up on the previous thread.
I have been reading the softzilla saga off and on, but thought it would fizzle out once she realised you weren't going to respond.

Hope you are ok, OP.

StoorieHoose · 31/05/2018 17:55

When my neighbour phone the police to complain about me they immediately said Mrs So and so has phoned us and want us to talk to you so SZ doesn’t have to be psychic

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