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Softzilla, the police

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Unreasonableunreasonableness · 31/05/2018 16:59

I can't update just now but here's the new thread. I will update later when I can.

OP posts:
15star · 31/05/2018 18:14

I'm not calling troll I just don't understand any of this. I wouldnt subject my child to keep seeing all of this at play group. I wouldn't have time to be bothered with any of this, would of just blocked her and seen the mums I was friends with away from the playgroup. I don't understand this frenzy and police involvement

TammySwansonTwo · 31/05/2018 18:16

The troll hunting is getting really old. Just report and move on FFS

Candlelight123 · 31/05/2018 18:17

Watch yourself OP SZ sounds unhinged

YouAreNotImportant · 31/05/2018 18:17

'I can't update right now' but I've made sure to start a new thread despite all the drama..

Watch 'em go..

HettySunshine · 31/05/2018 18:19

Thinking of you op. Don't let the horrible troll hunters get you down.

MrsMotherHen · 31/05/2018 18:19

am lost? how have the police now become involved.......

Dobby1sAFreeElf · 31/05/2018 18:20

A visitor at our old ndn threatened to attack my dc. Police didn't take a statement before arresting him. He did admit it though and ultimately due to agreement with the police and the ndn that nothing else would happen and thankfully it was stuck to we didn't press charges though there is still a log.

ThePants999 · 31/05/2018 18:21

132 posts when there isn't even any update. Might as well just start the next thread now at this rate.

Graphista · 31/05/2018 18:21

Only read op's posts on last thread, think I posted on first thread.

Worra it's way beyond a few irritating texts as far as I can tell. Sz is behaving in quite a threatening manner.

The trying to get op's dd to herself is VERY worrying.

This has gone way beyond a simple falling out.

Op I really hope the police are able to impress upon her that she needs to STOP now. Definitely harassment and bordering on stalker behaviour now. Flowers

NorthernKnickers · 31/05/2018 18:21

Yeah, I really don't get this tbh! I don't actually like anyone enough to be so bothered by staying in the same groups! I'd have buggered off to a new group months ago and blocked the lot of them! It's not even as if the OP has had masses of support by anyone other than Party Friend anyway 🙄 All very childish and SO avoidable (if you were the type to not want a lot of drama in your life...which I don't!)

expatmigrant · 31/05/2018 18:22

I've kind of dipped in and out of reading these threads and I am 100% with you 15star

NorthernKnickers · 31/05/2018 18:24

I'm not saying SZ isn't unhinged! She's obviously WAY beyond unhinged! But I think this has become ridiculous now and could easily have been stopped with a determined effort at the beginning!

MrMeSeeks · 31/05/2018 18:29

She messaged you whilst they were there???

Hadjab · 31/05/2018 18:31

Would anyone care to post a very brief synopsis? I read the first thread, but have no idea as to why police are now involved 🤔

Cagliostro · 31/05/2018 18:32

Goodness me. Hope you’re ok 💐

Eveforever · 31/05/2018 18:32

I agree troll hunters should report and move on. I also agree that filling up the thread makes them trolls too!

As to why the OP has ended up in this situation, well hindsight is a great thing. If the OP had known that things would escalate and continue on for two months, I'm sure she would have done things differently in the beginning. I guess she was hoping that Softzilla would eventually see reason, come to her senses, and/or back off.

Motoko · 31/05/2018 18:34

In order to be able to post a link to a new thread, on the last thread, OP had to set it up earlier, as the thread was about to run out.

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SoupDragon · 31/05/2018 18:41

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JingsMahBucket · 31/05/2018 18:42

The troll hunters can all go pound sand. MNHQ knows who the poster is and they’re fine with her posting. The OP is a longtime member of MN. They would’ve shut this down otherwise.

Eveforever · 31/05/2018 18:44

I don't necessarily think this is a work of fiction. I say that as I'm sure my life would sound like one if I was to tell you about it! Many people here do believe the OP and are enjoying following the thread and offering support to the OP. So, again, if you think the OP is a troll report her, please don't fill the thread up with posts saying you think she a troll, or everything is a lie.

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MilkAndCookies1 · 31/05/2018 18:46

Confused police?? Think I’ve missed a chunk!!

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