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Softzilla, the police

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Unreasonableunreasonableness · 31/05/2018 16:59

I can't update just now but here's the new thread. I will update later when I can.

OP posts:
couchparsnip · 21/06/2018 15:44

Good luck tomorrow OP, hope it's quiet and uneventful for your sake.

SoddingUnicorns · 21/06/2018 15:49

Ach it was just another poster being a smug and nasty twat, more about the rest of us than you OP. Calling us names and whatnot.

Anyhoo, new thread sounds good. Hopefully tomorrow passes without incident, how is PM feeling?

MyLifeIsFictional · 21/06/2018 16:11

Ooh new thread soon, can't wait to hear this week's shenanigans 🤗

mumdebump · 21/06/2018 17:12

OP can you post on another board rather than AIBU? That way you'll avoid some of the negative posts but those who want to support you will find you.

AnotherShirtRuined · 21/06/2018 17:38

I've been following this thread/these threads from the beginning and - quite apart from the support the OP receives here - find them very educational in terms of understanding and identifying what stalking actually is and how it can very quickly escalate.

Yes, each incident on it's own is silly, and I suspect that is what the troll hunters mean when they denounce the thread . Taken together, however, it's another story, and I would think the threads could be very helpful to others experiencing something similar.

So please, OP, don't stop updating because of a few disgruntled posters. And best wishes for an entirely uneventful and SZ-free Friday Grin

Motoko · 21/06/2018 18:02

The relationships board might be a better board to post on.

There was just a segment on PM on Radio 4 about stalking. It will be on the BBC iplayer and it was about 45/50 minutes in. They mentioned that a stalker's behaviour can be bizarre, and that certainly fits SZ's behaviour at times.

Good luck tomorrow OP.

Groovee · 21/06/2018 19:36

Hope tomorrow is calm x

BerylStreep · 21/06/2018 19:40

Yes, I hope tomorrow goes well. At least pm will be prepared for stalking by proxy, and GL is tipped off to keep an eye on things.

I really hope you have a lovely relaxed time with calm and lots of biscuits.

Laiste · 21/06/2018 20:01

Or Chat. Post the next one in Chat maybe? Bit milder in there :)

Tistheseason17 · 21/06/2018 20:06

Leave it here! You've got loads of support

ISnappedAndFarted · 21/06/2018 20:26

Don't be put off by the whingers, OP. Some people just seem to take pleasure in putting other people down.

I hope there's no drama tomorrow Flowers

Celticmombella · 21/06/2018 22:36

Hope all goes well tomorrow.. Remember we are all here for you. Sending you hugs Flowers

justilou1 · 22/06/2018 01:06

Please don’t leave AIBU without telling us where you’re going! I need to know! I’m one of your fans from Australia who stays up late Friday night to see if Softzilla has behaved herself at playgroup or not!

Ractify · 22/06/2018 02:57

justilou1 - me, too! Checking the thread from hospital after an operation yesterday....... Hoping all goes well for the OP today, and offering support if it doesn't.

Constantworkinprogress · 22/06/2018 04:32

Haven't posted but have read all the threads from the beginning.
Please don't stop posting! I've been following and keen to hear how it goes.

It's such a tricky situation and I really really feel for you OP!!

Willow2017 · 22/06/2018 07:47

Hope all goes well today. Dont let the b's get you down.

Start a new thread so we can continue to support you.

Laiste · 22/06/2018 08:13

Good luck today x

LakieLady · 22/06/2018 08:18

Hope it's ok today, OP.

MovingThisYearHopefully · 22/06/2018 09:08

Hope today goes ok. Big ((hugs)) OP. You're doing great in all this. Flowers

Loyaultemelie · 22/06/2018 09:27

Good luck today (I know it's Friday! Wink)

HesaidIwasflighty · 22/06/2018 09:34

Delurking to wish you luck for today, OP! Hope PM is feeling ok about going to the group as well.

ColourfulOrangex · 22/06/2018 09:43

Did OP start a new thread? I know she said she was going to

Lndnmummy · 22/06/2018 10:29

Good luck OP!

Brieonabagel · 22/06/2018 11:29

Please call your new thread ‘Softzilla is in everyone’s predictive text now’ Wink

LongSummerDays · 22/06/2018 12:13

No update yet? Sad