Softzilla, the police

[Unreasonableunreasonableness]

I can't update just now but here's the new thread. I will update later when I can.

If the OP finds it either helpful or therapeutic (or both) to keep posting then she should.
I hope OP find it therapeutic too. With this sort of situation its hard to speak in real life without being made out to be a gossip or spreading rumours etc. At least here her anonymity gives some protection.

If you think its pointless then dont look. Easy. You are not actually contributing anything except slagging off op which is agsinst mn guidelines.

If the rest of us are interested and want to support op thats our business.

HateSummer I agree. Its much ado about nothing now. The other mum doesn't seem to have much of a problem with 'softzilla' but is now stuck in the middle of whatever this is that's going on.

@BlancheM and @HateSummer

Did you miss Hope's post?

I'll paste it for you, here you go.

HopeMumsnet (MNHQ) Tue 19-Jun-18 13:39:29
Hi all,
Just to reiterate...
If people are no longer enjoying this thread then (paraphrasing the words of the seminal kids' tv show) "Why Don't You just switch off your laptop and go out and do something less boring instead?" Or visit another thread, at least? Trollhunting will be deleted as usual.

No, I didn't miss it, Blank

Why not just hide the threads? I hide loads of threads that I find boring or lame. Occasionally I post that I'm going to hide one, but usually just hide and leave.

"Who’s troll hunting? I’m saying the updates are just pointless. I didn’t realise you weren’t allowed to have an opinion against the grain on MN anymore..
Let’s all be sheep and think and talk and walk and dress the same way. That’s the MN way. That’ll be fun. 🙄."

Fwiw @HateSummer if you check above you will see we didn't delete your post.

We don't allow derailing, though, especially when a poster needs support, so we would ask you to bear that in mind.

Just hide the thread if you don’t like what you see.

@GabsAlot here here

This woman is clearly unhinged and still spending a lot of time thinking of how to get to you - be wary!

I'm so sorry for everything that you are going through. I have just spend the last 2 hours reading all the threads... OMG she is needs to banned from group!!
Its 3am now... So I better get some sleep.

I hope everything has been going ok.

I also don’t understand reading and commenting when you are over the thread!

Party Mum should tell Group Leader that SZ was making her feel uncomfortable. Particularly as she knows the back story.

I was trying not to put much on here so I didn't draw attention of the grumps!

Unreasonableunreasonableness please post what you like, when you like. It's your thread which a lot of us are interested in and would like to/have offered help and support to you.
Ignore the moaning Minnie's!

Unreasonableunreasonableness I need to know how the situation has resolved? Update please xx

I've just been finding it awfully lowering when people post saying it's just all silly etc.
Anyway it's been a quiet week on that front. Only thing I can report is this big anniversary party was supposed to be this weekend and still no one has heard anything about it.
Party mum is a quiet person and I do not blame her for what she did. In fact I'd probably have done the same. We have agreed that next time she'll just come chat to me as normal and if softzilla approaches then group leader will ask her to leave. Group leader has said that if she's bothering party friend that she can come over to her too and the same will happen.

I’m sorry the negative posters have affected you unreasonable, it really isn’t fair and they’re just gobbing off to make some kind of ridiculous point. Ignore them, they’re twats.

I’m glad group leader is supporting you and PM, I felt rotten for PM last week. SZ put her in an awful position. I hope this week goes smoothly for you both.

I think some of the keyboard warriors just don't consider the fact that the behind the OP there is a real person with feelings that can be hurt. I also doubt that there would be all this minimising if the thread was about a male stalker.

It's not silly at all, unreasonable, it's slightly chilling, tbh.

And I use the going for a wee thing to rid myself of bores at parties, it works a treat on a normal person. If it doesn't work for PM, then she'll know for sure that she's now in SZ's sights.

What a weirdo she is.

Blonde
OP updated last friday after the group. What else do you want her to say? Next group isnt till Friday. The situation is clearly NOT resolved, SZ is just trying a new tactic to isolate OP.