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Are you a feminist? Just a yes or no.

999 replies

RedHareWithBlondeHair · 09/02/2018 17:16

No need to go further into your reasoning if you don't want to but this has always a been curious issue to me and came up today with one of my colleagues. She is a feminist by how she described her beliefs but doesn't actually adopt the term.

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MaryLennoxsScowl · 09/02/2018 20:36

But I counted all versions of yes as yes, even those with qualifiers.

Sn0tnose · 09/02/2018 20:37

Absolutely yes!

I really don't understand why anyone would not be. It's almost like they've seen an example of the most radical form of feminism and decided that all feminists are over-reacting man haters.

CharlieSierra · 09/02/2018 20:37

YES!!!

IllhaveaPpleaseBob · 09/02/2018 20:37

Yes

MrsPworkingmummy · 09/02/2018 20:38

No

Alwayscommuting · 09/02/2018 20:38

Yes!

CertainHalfDesertedStreets · 09/02/2018 20:39

Yes

I want equality, I don't hold women to a higher standard than men which is how I feel feminism comes across.

The feminists I know have very high standards for men. And a great deal of belief that men can meet those standards. Not this infantilising 'well he's only a man, he can't possibly stack the dishwasher/look after his own kids/understand when he's sexually harassing someone' bullshit.

UpperWallop · 09/02/2018 20:39

YES

Friolero · 09/02/2018 20:39

Yes

foodiefil · 09/02/2018 20:40

Yes!!

Adelie0404 · 09/02/2018 20:40

Yes

Strongmummy · 09/02/2018 20:42

Mumsnet feminists tend to be trans exclusionary radical feminists or TERF which I find abhorrent. Not all feminism is the same.

SamHeughansCephalicVeins · 09/02/2018 20:42

Yes, absolutely.

RusholmeRuffian · 09/02/2018 20:43

Yes

zozozoo · 09/02/2018 20:44

Yes

CertainHalfDesertedStreets · 09/02/2018 20:45

TERF which I find abhorrent

Totes mutual Wink

Imbluedabadee · 09/02/2018 20:45

Yes

CharlieSierra · 09/02/2018 20:45

Take darts walk-on girls, or page 3 girls for example, they want to do the job, but feminists are saying it should be banned. How is it anti-feminist if these women want to do it? it normalises and perpetuates the objectification of women.

duckingfisaster · 09/02/2018 20:45

Yes

Of course I am.

But totally agree with Strongmummy and of late would be reticent to describe myself as one because the term has been tarnished by the extremists whose views I wouldn't align myself with at all. But as far as the dictionary definition goes, it is a yes.

Lweji · 09/02/2018 20:46

Yes.

FoggyDew17 · 09/02/2018 20:46

No

AgathaMystery · 09/02/2018 20:46

Yes

Fridayfun · 09/02/2018 20:46

Yes

AstraiaLiberty · 09/02/2018 20:47

Yes

sakura06 · 09/02/2018 20:49

Yes!

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