In wondering when the hell everyone lost respect for relationships?!

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Happily married to dh. Have a young ds.

Yesterday no less than THREE men came on to me.

All of them are friends with dh too! All have wives/ long term partners.

What the fuck is wrong with people? I feel like people are giving less of a shit about this kind of thing these days.

When I had a go at one of them he told me I should have felt flattered not angry. Wtf?

3 people in relationships came on to you in one day? Sounds like some kind of weird bet tbh.

I know... What the odds of losing THREE losing bets too?

Statistically significant!

Were you clothed?

Some kind of dare or something seems too odd to me it was all on one day lol.

What were you doing yesterday? That’s one interesting day...

What do you mean exactly by 'come on to you'? 3 in one day is very unusual, so could they just have been being friendly?

Really?!

Three of your dh's married/coupled friends came onto you in one day?

In what scenario? I can't think of many days when I've seen three of my oh's friends unless it's a party. Was it a social gathering? Was there a bowl filled with car keys?

Congratulations, OP! I’ve been on MN for years under various names and this is my very first .

Are you Samantha Brick??

I don't know what is wrong with people. What IS wrong with me that this has literally NEVER happened to me?

Are you sure they were coming on to you?

This is going to be one of those threads where the "moral" is that if you think your husband would never cheat you are naive and WRONG, they all go crazy at the slightest hint of an attractive woman.

Oh and also married women are all jealous of single women and try to keep their husbands close to them, but this just pushes them further away.

And married women let themselves go, so it's their own fault really.

Beat me to it Onlyonescoop

Who's Samantha brick?

What did your DH say when you told him?

Agree it was some kind of bet - grab a granny type of jape between childish blokes.

@loveblether She's an ordinary looking woman who thought she was a goddess and women hated her for being too pretty.

Provided much hilarity amongst those who aren't terminally deluded.

Well, more key to her provocative stance on her attractiveness is that she’s a journalist for The Daily Fail and The Scum amongst others.

Ha yes maybe all three got together and said let’s see how she will react.

If she's beautiful, she hides it well.

Erm......Pax? Little help here?

Do you have pampas grass on your front lawn?

Soz, @HoneyDragon, didn't realise you're in there. He didn't come on to you, did he?

You sure they were coming onto you?

Years ago a woman threatened to beat me up for coming onto her bloke in a club.

I was just talking to him. You know, normally. Like people do.