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She massaged my boobs!

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fannyanddick · 19/12/2017 19:18

Had a massage at reputable place. Been there lots before. 1/2 massage and she massages by chest for a small part of it. Say one minute or maybe less. Is this normal? I mean I guess it is part of my body, and a full body massage....? Would they do a man's chest?

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fannyanddick · 19/12/2017 19:19

Sorry that should read half hour massage and it was a Thai massage place if that's relevant.

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fannyanddick · 19/12/2017 19:20

Clearly tired. Apologies for all the typos!

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JollyGiraffe · 19/12/2017 19:20
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CanIBuffalo · 19/12/2017 19:20
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Goodnamesalltaken · 19/12/2017 19:25

It depends on how far down the chest she went IYSWIM. It is hard to explain but as a massage therapist I massage across the chest/ pectoral area, as you need to do both the back and chest 1. For balance and 2. If the back is tight the chest will in all probability be tight too.
I hope that helps

Rotorevolution · 19/12/2017 19:25

I had this when I was abroad. Was mortified!

BulletFox · 19/12/2017 19:26

Wut? So were you wearing pants/ towel over you?

I'm not sure I'd care that much if it was a reputable place, my chest's not that exciting. You could have told her to stop if you felt uncomfortable.

Lethaldrizzle · 19/12/2017 19:28

I'm not sure it would bother me

CorbynsBumFlannel · 19/12/2017 19:29

If it was over the nipples that is unusual ime! Collar bone and cleavage area not so much.

Nottheduchessofcambridge · 19/12/2017 19:30

Ooh I’d quite like that, it would be nice to have them massaged in a non-sexual way.

SmokingGun · 19/12/2017 19:31

I had a deep tissue massage tonight and yes the top of my chest was done, I’ve had quite a few so don’t think anything of it anymore but the first time I was a bit Shock

ConjugalHoliday · 19/12/2017 19:33

This happened to me years ago in Thailand. It was having a pedicure and it's not uncommon for the person to give you a calf and foot massage too. This woman also game me a head, shoulders and boob massage! I just froze. Confused

honeylulu · 19/12/2017 19:39

I had a massage in Morocco (female masseuse) which included the chest/ breast area. It didn't seem odd at all. Very sort of restful.
Had one in Turkey (male masseuse in a public sauna thing). No breast rubbing!

BulletFox · 19/12/2017 19:40

Actually one of the nicest physical experiences I had was on the school bus when my friend said we all had differently shaped knees and started squeezing mine to ascertain what they were.

It wasn't sexual in the slightest, I just really enjoyed it!

Ashamedandblamed · 19/12/2017 19:46

Today 19:30 Nottheduchessofcambridge

Ooh I’d quite like that, it would be nice to have them massaged in a non-sexual way.

Ha ha ha Grin

Tinselistacky · 19/12/2017 19:47

I had a pregnancy package massage that included boobs done - but she checked if it was OK first!!

LloydColeandtheCoconuts · 19/12/2017 19:49

I once had a massage that included chest/breast area. It was lovely and totally non sexual.

SmokingGun · 19/12/2017 19:50

Oh btw, be prepared to HURT tomorrow. Pre-period boob ache x 20!

honeylulu · 19/12/2017 19:51

Does anyone remember the episode of Catastrophe where Sharon has a massage, is shocked when the masseuse moves on to her boobs, and then inadvertently has an orgasm. Heehee.

crackerjacket · 19/12/2017 19:51

God help us what now?

Shmithecat · 19/12/2017 19:51

I had the same sort of thing in Vietnam. It was fine. Nothing sexual, and there are muscles under there somewhere!

badbadhusky · 19/12/2017 19:52

This has to be wank fodder, surely?

oblada · 19/12/2017 19:53

Sounds like a proper full body massage!! I love getting massages on India, it's fab! Hard to find the same here in the UK I find... People are maybe a bit too prudish lol :)

HemanOrSheRa · 19/12/2017 19:57

I had a massage when I was in India years ago. The lovely massage lady started to massage my boobs and I got a terrible fit of the giggles and couldn't stop. It was nerves and embarrassment! She was totally bemused but I managed to convey, through the medium of mime, that it was my problem not hers but I'd prefer her 'To no massagy my boobies thank you' BlushGrin.

fannyanddick · 19/12/2017 20:33

Haha Herman, that's brilliant! I quite enjoyed it but wasn't sure it f I should be feeling violated or if a massage rule was being stepped over iyswim. I was ok with it as long as it was purely 'massage' and not a nod to anything sexual. If that happened with a man in real life it would feel like cheating so that's the oddness for me.

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