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She massaged my boobs!

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fannyanddick · 19/12/2017 19:18

Had a massage at reputable place. Been there lots before. 1/2 massage and she massages by chest for a small part of it. Say one minute or maybe less. Is this normal? I mean I guess it is part of my body, and a full body massage....? Would they do a man's chest?

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SunnySkiesSleepsintheMorning · 19/12/2017 21:22

I can’t see how this would possibly be unreasonable.

fannyanddick · 19/12/2017 21:22

Also, given the number of people replying saying this happened to them, I am clearly not alone.

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SunnySkiesSleepsintheMorning · 19/12/2017 21:23

No, I got reported, not you.

NorthCoast · 19/12/2017 21:25

I go and see the massage therapist at our local osteopath and she's amazing. She doesn't go any lower than roughly level with the armpits, but the first time she ever gave me an arm massage I didn't realise that when she massaged the underside of my forearm it would make my fingers contract. My hand was in exactly the wrong place and I inadvertently groped her Blush

A friend of mine goes to a Thai place - he says his masseur told him that quite a few of their female clients will ask for a happy ending too.

SunnySkiesSleepsintheMorning · 19/12/2017 21:27

Sorry for being disbelieving and a twatface. Flowers I mean it genuinely.
I also promise I didn’t report you.

TDHManchester · 19/12/2017 21:28

How incredibly petty,,reporting people ,hahahaaaaaa

9GreenBottles · 19/12/2017 21:31

Heman I just came on to type a very similar story! In my hotel room in an Indian village with a young, non English speaking girl, just a towel on to start with (soon whipped away) and the full Ayurvedic massage with oil.

My breasts were bad enough, but when she started on my flabby belly, I was in hysterics Grin

YetAnotherHelenMumsnet · 19/12/2017 21:32

Not very often, to be honest, SunnySkies, but anyway BECAUSE THIS HAPPENED TO ACTUAL ME we are inclined to let this one stand.

CatelynStark · 19/12/2017 21:33

In a Turkish spa, my masseuse checked it was ok with me before doing my boobs. I agreed out of politeness, embarrassment and sheer bewilderment.

It was the most unsexy thing ever Blush

Voice0fReason · 19/12/2017 21:42

I've had this before - she did check with me first, but it was a lovely massage.

SunnySkiesSleepsintheMorning · 19/12/2017 21:44

I am genuinely sorry for being a twat, no excuse, just being a twat. Sorry again. Chocolate

I just remembered that I once had a massage and turned over so I was exposed and she didn’t cover my boobs but she never touched them.

fannyanddick · 19/12/2017 21:45

It's ok, I never saw your message before It was deleted so I am ignorant to any abuse hurled my way!

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Runthejewels · 19/12/2017 21:46

This happened to me in Spain this year when I was getting a full body massage. I was shocked tbh as the therapist didn't say anything just started massaging them when I was lying on my back! I found it really weird. My backs fecked though so maybe it helped who knows! My mum who was getting a massage at the same time with a different therapist didn't get her boobs done so we weren't sure why mine were done!

SunnySkiesSleepsintheMorning · 19/12/2017 21:46

I didn’t abuse you, that would be super twatty, I just said I thought it didn’t happen.

MoistCantaloupe · 19/12/2017 21:47

@HemanOrSheRa Oh, I've never had the buttock knee anchoring massage, but I do hope one day I get to! I'm glad it made you feel better when you needed it though x

HemanOrSheRa · 19/12/2017 21:48

Grin 9Green. Yup I did the same. What made it worse was that I was on the beach with my very good (and very gay) male friend. I was mortified at getting my boobs out in front of him and so was he Blush. I then started to demonstrate 'No massage my boobies' with Karate Kid 'Wax on, Wax off' style movements and great big 'It's not you, It's me' arm gestures Blush. Sat there with me boobs and belly out. I'm such a twat Grin.

fannyanddick · 19/12/2017 21:52

Ah that's fine sunny. I know it sounds weird, it was!

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haveacupoftea · 19/12/2017 21:53

I've only had a full body massage once but she did not massage my boobs. Never even offered!

Good thing your DP wasn't with you, if he's anything like mine he'd be pestering you for weeks after Blush

Fintress · 19/12/2017 21:54

We are just back from Thailand where we had a lot of massages, all massaged the chest area.

Consideredintrusion · 19/12/2017 21:57

Ooo happened to me at Clarins spa in local Debenhams. Aghast, I asked friend - who works at another beauty counter in same store - if it was normal or if I was abnormal by thinking it wasn’t normal. Friend then asked EVERYONE on the beauty floor. General consensus was that it wasn’t normal BUT it was the norm with the French. Word must have got back to clarins as next appointment the boob lady asked if I wanted the boobs massaged. I declined. Should have asked in first place, lady.

fannyanddick · 19/12/2017 21:58

All of them and fully over the area fintress? I have been to Thailand more than once and had plenty of massages there but never had this before. Tummy I have had (urgh) and around the area but not full on.

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Sanshin · 19/12/2017 22:03

I had a massage in Thailand a few years back ... all was going well until she slipped off my bikini top and started massaging my boobs. I remember thinking "oooh this is a bit innapropriate! Should I say something? Is this normal here? I kinda like it ... but if she removes my bikini bottoms I'm out!"

As it happens, she did slip down my bikini bottoms and massaged my bum cheeks - I kinda liked that too.

I got a massage last month in Vietnam and was actually disappointed that she didn't go all the way 😂 Can't beat the Thais when it comes to massage.

anonymousity · 19/12/2017 22:10

Once I went for a head massage and somehow ended up with a bum massage (which involved a finger between top of bum cheeks Blush). I felt both violated and amused by the whole situation! So bizarre!!!!

Lentilbaby · 19/12/2017 22:42

This happened to me in Thailand Confused

itsallrelative2017 · 19/12/2017 23:05

I've had this but the masseuse always ask if I'm comfortable with it first Smile

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