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Neighbor complaint - people using his drive to turn

359 replies

HarveySherlock · 11/12/2017 12:07

Sorry I can't add diagram.

So we live on the cul de sack with a turning area. Each house has a driveway. No one parks in the turning area as we have large driveways and there is in shot parking as well.

Since we moved in earlier this year for some reason people use our drive to turn rather than going to the end of the road and use the turning area. This was particularly annoying in the dark evening with car lights.

We got a new fence with automatic driveway gates added last week. This now means people can't use our drive to turn. Our next door neighbor came over yesterday to complain that people are now using his drive instead of ours. We told him there isn't anything we can do. We suggested he put up a sign saying no turning.

He has now posted a note through the door (even though I'm working from home) saying he will be complaining about us at tonight's residents meeting.Xmas Hmm. He thinks we should have discussed our fence/gate plans with neighbors before installing them as they now have to deal with what was our problem. We didn't need permission for the fence or gates.

Aibu to think that people turning on his drive isn't our problem?

OP posts:
ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 14/12/2017 15:41

I got an email this morning from the secretary/neighbor about gritting or the lack thereof

Oooh! I love a good grit bin argument! Grin The was a massive stooshie around my bit a while back, residents meetings with people shouting at each other, furious letters flying back and forth... Result? The grit bin got moved (by the council) about 10m farther down the road.

You must stay involved OP, I guarantee it will be a massive source of entertainment just don't get sucked into being an office bearer

AcrossthePond55 · 14/12/2017 15:42
SchadenfreudePersonified · 14/12/2017 15:47

and Christmas jumpers Pond

Gin and [Christmas jumper emoticon needed MN, please!]

AcrossthePond55 · 15/12/2017 01:58

Oooh, yes! Christmas jumpers will be our gang 'colours'!!!

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 15/12/2017 03:39

The Grit Bin Gang should wear this

Neighbor complaint - people using his drive to turn
TracyBeakerSoYeah · 15/12/2017 03:54

CF Neighbour Gang can wear this

Neighbor complaint - people using his drive to turn
zzzzz · 15/12/2017 09:29

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SchadenfreudePersonified · 15/12/2017 14:59

Excellent suggestions Tracey

To wear in the summer or under the Christmas Jumpers

eastlondoner · 15/12/2017 15:04

This was a pleasing thread to read. Your neighbour sounds so stupid.

AcrossthePond55 · 15/12/2017 17:43

Bwahhahaha!

That penguin with guns shirt is particularly appropriate for a thread about CFNs and parking/turning around/cars.

Much better than a shirt with a penguin bollard.

zzzzz · 15/12/2017 20:29

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ItsNachoCheese · 15/12/2017 20:41

Penguin bollards are only ever to be searched for in incognito/secret mode so they dont follow you everywhere 😂

SchadenfreudePersonified · 15/12/2017 21:27

Thank you zzzzz.

Lots please

zzzzz · 15/12/2017 22:03

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healzam · 21/12/2017 22:02

Is your neighbour being polite or a cheeky nutter

Daleksatemyshed · 23/02/2021 19:23

May have been 3 years ago but I just found your thread and needed to say you are a bloody star!

Chloemol · 23/02/2021 19:46

YANBU. But normally your land starts after any footpaths or verges. Therefore people maybe turning in driveways perfectly properly.

IsThePopeCatholic · 23/02/2021 19:49

Suggest he gets a cone from somewhere and puts in on his driveway. Job done!

VenusTiger · 23/02/2021 19:57

Go away really old threads.

StoneofDestiny · 23/02/2021 19:57

Well done OP - you solved two problems at once. (I wonder how your neighbour gets through a normal day with normal people in normal circumstances)

HavelockVetinari · 23/02/2021 20:22

Did anyone else read all of the thread thinking "You have no authority here, Jackie Weaver!"? Grin

NoseOfJericho · 23/02/2021 20:32

@Efferlunt

Ubisoft really don’t understand why people have such an issue with people using the end of your drive to turn surely it’s not that inconvenient?
When you have it happening pretty much all the time, day and night, it is more than inconvenient, it is incredibly bloody annoying.

You have music blaring out, engines revving, engines running while they faff about with seatbelts and coats and blowing their noses and checking phones. Add to that, the lights glaring at your windows and lighting up your house like Blackpool Illuminations while they take their time to turn. Plus the wear and tear on the drive.

I vowed never to live in a cul de sac ever again.

NotSorry · 23/02/2021 20:33

@VenusTiger

Go away really old threads.
Grin Grin Grin
Lifeisforalimitedperiodonly · 23/02/2021 20:41

ZOMBIEEEEEEEEE

NoseOfJericho · 23/02/2021 20:46

I never got to post on it the first time round Wink

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