To think my DP is disgusting

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Just had a row with DP because he doesn’t brush his teeth. He says he forgets and can go for days. I think it’s bloody disgusting & his teeth are in a state and there is no excuse at all for poor dental hygiene. Aibu

Do you really need to ask? Do you think someone will say yes you're unreasonable that sounds lovely to me..
so yes. It's disgusting.

I hope you don't kiss him or have sex with him.

Morning breath at its worst.
for you op.

Eww not brushing teeth is a bit manky! How can you ‘forget’ for days, as a one off now and then when busy fine but for days just no.

I couldn’t kiss him with disgusting breath and manky teeth

He thinks I am being unreasonable though for having a go at him about it

Has he stopped brushing his teeth recently? I just can’t imagine ever getting into a relationship with someone so disgusting... people with good hygiene rarely just stop giving a shit I imagine...

It's minging!

That is all

Yuck, he won't have any teeth soon if he carries on like that!

Leave him please.

It’s never been like this really- I don’t know what’s the matter with him- his teeth are disgusting- it’s like he can’t be arsed. Am so pissed off

No, I don’t currently shag him. Things aren’t great unsurprisingly

He is putting himself at risk of heart disease, the dirty get

How do you kiss him ?

Ew. I have an ex who would only brush once a day, if he remembered at all, and it was gross. Say to him "Your breath stinks like shit - do you really expect me to want to F you right now?" and see what he comes up with.

I do feel contempt actually. I don’t want to kiss him or shag him or be near him at the moment. I don’t think that is unreasonable at all.

Is he depressed? Thats usually a tell tale sign is giving up dental and personal hygene by forgetting or not being bothered.

How, AnyFucker? Not heard that one before!

That is pretty bad, OP. It's not something I can imagine doing, and I am pretty unhygienic generally.

I can’t sleep either if I don’t brush my teeth- I dont think he’s depressed - I am genuinely at a loss why anyone would do it tbh

I have just told him how unacceptable I think it is and he just won’t listen.

I cant sleep if i dont brush my teeth either. Im drinking coffee now and my teeth feel disgusting.

I can honestly say that there has never been a day in my life where I haven’t cleaned my teeth twice. I can’t sleep with makeup on either

Here, fleur: www.nhs.uk/news/heart-and-lungs/clean-teeth-reduce-heart-risk/