That's the regime - not the people.
The revolution was the Brexit/trump of its day - people (intelligent, professional people - even armed forces) just couldn't see it happen and were shocked when it did. It really was the pitchfork weilders revolution.
The army was told to stand down to prevent more bloodshed. It is tolerated (not much else they can do) by the majority - generations have been lost to emigration.
I'm sure having her daughter within some reach brings her a tiny piece of mind. She will be safe with her grandparents and can at least visit her mummy, despite the situation.