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I'm so angry at my neighbour.

93 replies

helbel34 · 15/06/2017 21:12

We have had neighbours for the last 2 years the dh works away and is only home every couple of weeks. My dh and myself have socialized with the wife. E.g. drinks in the garden, and I have invited her in when I have had friends over. Tbh I have not really clicked with her but I felt bad that she was on her own.

So the issue is a couple of weeks ago my dh was downstairs late at night I was on bed, my neighbour knocked on our back window to ask if she could borrow a cigarette and proceeded to stay in my house for two hours what do you think.

OP posts:
StillDrivingMeBonkers · 15/06/2017 21:14

"borrow a cigarette"

You lost me at letting her in and not telling her to leave again.

Pollydonia · 15/06/2017 21:15

I think your issue should be with your dh who didn't tell her to leave .

Sparklingbrook · 15/06/2017 21:15

I have no idea what to think. Are you saying your DH is having an affair with your neighbour?

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 15/06/2017 21:15

That she is lonely?

Funnyfarmer · 15/06/2017 21:16

Think about what?

Siwdmae · 15/06/2017 21:16

Stop it now or you'll end up with her round all the fricking time, mine did the same. Constant requests for fags/wine. Drove me nuts.

Asmoto · 15/06/2017 21:16

Could you not have gone downstairs to hasten her departure?

BandeauSally · 15/06/2017 21:16

This happened two weeks ago and you're still angry? Confused

Smellbellina · 15/06/2017 21:17

Eh?

PenguinOfDoom · 15/06/2017 21:17

What?

FruBayerischOla · 15/06/2017 21:17

Tell her you don't have any spare cigarettes and don't invite her in.

SparklyScourer · 15/06/2017 21:17

How did she manage to stay for 2hrs?

Justmuddlingalong · 15/06/2017 21:17

As you are married, I'm presuming it's your husband's house too.

AgathaRaisonDetra · 15/06/2017 21:18

You need to move house.

ChasedByBees · 15/06/2017 21:19

She probably thought she was socialising with her neighbours who she has socialised with before. Which bit are you angry about?

gamerchick · 15/06/2017 21:19

What do we think about what?

BandeauSally · 15/06/2017 21:21

You need to move house.

This is the new LTB Grin

Coddiwomple · 15/06/2017 21:21

What is wrong with staying for a chat with people who a) invite you for drinks b) let you in when you pop in?

Confused
PeaFaceMcgee · 15/06/2017 21:22

You don't trust your DH? You didn't know she was there? You think something went on?

PeaFaceMcgee · 15/06/2017 21:22

She's either a friend or isn't. From what you've written, I see no problem?

UrsulaPandress · 15/06/2017 21:23

Why are you cross with her and not your DH?

kali110 · 15/06/2017 21:25

What do i think about what? Confused

Jengnr · 15/06/2017 21:25

I think she wanted a fag so she asked her mate for one then they got chatting.

Allthebestnamesareused · 15/06/2017 21:25

So DH wasn't tired and stayed up chatting to a neighbour. Otherwise he'd have said - lovely chatting but I have work tomorrow so need to get to bed.

kali110 · 15/06/2017 21:26

*You need to move house.

This is the new LTB*
Grin