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To ask you to help me argue with an anti-vaxxer on fb

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GoesDownLikeACupOfColdSick · 11/02/2017 21:24

I know, I know. But it's Saturday night, DP is out and I am just home whilst our (fully vaccinated!) DD is asleep.

What do I say to someone who is convinced that we should all do our own research, that vaccines are only about big pharma making big bucks, and that the govt hushes up vaccine damage??

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Juveniledelinquent · 11/02/2017 21:25

Say, "I refuse to feed you"

ilovesooty · 11/02/2017 21:26

Don't waste your time.

Wolfiefan · 11/02/2017 21:27

You can't argue with crazy.

GoesDownLikeACupOfColdSick · 11/02/2017 21:27

Sigh, I know you're right. And he's actually a really decent bloke, he just thinks he's spotted a massive conspiracy theory.

I must step away from the app!

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formerbabe · 11/02/2017 21:28

Don't bother...You'll just end up getting wound up!

TheHodgeoftheHedge · 11/02/2017 21:28

You show them this

CaravanOnCraggyIsland · 11/02/2017 21:29

Tell him unless he's performed an independent literature review, and is able to interpret all the studies and critically analyse them, then he's probably wasting his time.

Doobydoo · 11/02/2017 21:30

If you are so for them you must be able to present your reasons .

chibsortig · 11/02/2017 21:30

Definitely share Hodges video it was the one i was going to post failing that direct them to the tinfoil and back away real quick.

GoesDownLikeACupOfColdSick · 11/02/2017 21:30

Ohhhh, his mate has just jumped in and told me I have been "programmed by fear".

What planet are these people on?

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SmallBee · 11/02/2017 21:32

There are no winners when you argue on the Internet.

Having said that, unless they've got the necessary medical qualifications how can they successfully conduct thorough research on the matter from trustworthy and peer reviewed sources?

EndoplasmicReticulum · 11/02/2017 21:33

There's no point arguing, their mind is already made up. Nothing you can say will make the slightest bit of difference.

To ask you to help me argue with an anti-vaxxer on fb
GoesDownLikeACupOfColdSick · 11/02/2017 21:34

I started off with exactly that, caravan and small. Got told that we just needed to look at how many kids didn't get vaccinated and didn't have autism, that was all the science we needed!!

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MsSampson · 11/02/2017 21:35

Haha, I don't know why I clicked on a thread about anti vaxxers at 9.30 on a Saturday night after a few glasses of wine, because that way madness lies, but that video is awesome, so I'm glad I did, thanks!

GoesDownLikeACupOfColdSick · 11/02/2017 21:37

Now they're saying "they" have found a "cure for autism". Don't even know where to start with that!!!!! You're all so right, I'm out.

He's lovely in most respects but you can't argue with stupid!

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flumpybear · 11/02/2017 21:38

Ok - what about third world and their lack of vaccines shock causes death - plus perhaps they're fear thing could be turned around to their mindset?!

flumpybear · 11/02/2017 21:39

Cure autism ... they're taking hard drugs ..... Hmm

janecrisplover · 11/02/2017 21:42

That's what you need to reply 'can't argue with stupid!!'. Xxx

GladAllOver · 11/02/2017 21:49

Ask him "Have you heard about the Chemtrails that are poisoning us?"
That should keep him quiet for a while :)

Teapot13 · 11/02/2017 21:59

Agree it probably isn't worth it but you could tell him that "research" in this context doesn't mean reading articles on the Internet -- it means conducting studies that then get replicated and published in peer-reviewed journals.

SherlockPotter · 11/02/2017 22:00

Don't waste your time. They're too stubborn to believe anything else.

FreeNiki · 11/02/2017 22:07

I'd post this and then leave it.

Twofurrycats · 11/02/2017 22:07

I like the idea of chucking chemtrails in to the mix. Fight fire with fire. Suggest that anti vax is an idea spread by the new world order to cause world depopulation. Mention Denver airport. Leave them to it.

SmallBee · 12/02/2017 02:44

I'd be tempted to reply with

' you've convinced me. Good job,really great, I'm so enlightened now. Huge enlightenment, really bigly. I have great respect for anti vaxxers. '

AlmostAJillSandwich · 12/02/2017 02:46

Check out the blog posts specifically about vaccinations on docbastard.net a lovely trauma surgeon with years and years of medical training, who quite rightly makes it very clear what he thinks of ani vaxxers.

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