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neighbour using my drive when I'm out.

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birdladyfromhomealone · 09/01/2017 16:25

I came home early this morning just after 11am as i have had a chest infection since before Xmas and was struggling at work.
When I got home there were two cars on my drive, one park almost touching my front window and the other one at an angle beside it.
This is the only way to get two cars on the driveway so whoever it was parking there must know the driveway well and how to get two cars on it.
Outside on the road is permit parking and no parking between 10 and 12am.
This is to stop commuters and shoppers parking as we are five minutes from a huge indoor shopping centre.
I had to park behind them blocking them in and blocking the pavement also.
I left a note on my car for the traffic warden
Please knock on door as I have to obstruct the pavement due to two illegally parked cars on my drive.
half an hour later my next door neighbour in his 70's who we NEVER see knocks on my door.
Totally unapologetic and says one car belongs to his wife's carer as she cant park on the road due to restrictions and the other is a neighbour from up the road who uses our driveway when we are at work as her driveway is not big enough.
Even though I was fuming he still just didnt seen to think it was a problem even saying.
Well when your at work your not using it and at least it makes it look like some one is home.
I told him to get them moved straight away.
The carer came round looking really sheepish and asked would I mind if she parked during the restrictions between 10 and 12 as she has been given a ticket in the past. I said fine if no one is in but why cant my neighbour move his car off his drive to enable his wife's carers to park. He cant afford £40 a year to pay for a permit for his carers?
The other car nearly touching my front window is still there so I have put a not on it.
Caroline, I have reported your car to the police as an abandoned vehicle. Since then Nicholas has told me he gave you permission to park here. Nicholas has no business or authority to use our driveway. It would have been polite and neighbourly to at least have asked permission. If your car is parked on my driveway again I will be reporting you to the police.
Tomorrow if I am feeling better I am off the B&Q to buy a chain and paddlock so they cant use my drive!

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TudorHouse · 09/01/2017 20:09

cherry we will be screaming right along with you! Screaming with excitement!! 🌟🌟 sign up now! #screamingatbankamangerbecauseofoverdraft

CherryChasingDotMuncher · 09/01/2017 20:09

See, this is another reason us Americans are jealous of you Brits. We just don't have these wonderfully entertaining parking problems!

We lived in the US briefly and I was disappointed astounded at the lack of parking drama. Do you know people actually park in their own parking spaces over there, and within lines too. Mind blowing Grin

moogletea · 09/01/2017 20:11

We found out someone was using our drive in the day by looking at street view. Brazen as - two cars parked on the drive. Apparently according to postman they'd been doing it for months. We barricaded drive way with our bins and the cheeky buggers moved them

JaneAustinAllegro · 09/01/2017 20:11

Cherry will you call the baby Caroline if it's a girl or Nicholas for a boy?

thebakerwithboobs · 09/01/2017 20:14

I'm so tired but I can't go to bed until Caroline has arrived!

CherryChasingDotMuncher · 09/01/2017 20:14

Jane I think I owe it to the OP really don't I Grin

Apprently latent labour can last a week. Hope if that's the case that she doesn't take that long OP!

Lissette · 09/01/2017 20:15

What happened in the end Moogletea?

pho3be · 09/01/2017 20:15

Id want to know how long this has been going on & then bill her for renting your driveway. I live near a station into a city & charge £10 a day Halo
Caroline probably works at the shopping centre & has sheepishly walked home tonight

moonchild77 · 09/01/2017 20:17

Caroline is scared and may never move her car again.

twatbadgingcuntfuckerymark2 · 09/01/2017 20:17

It's not Nicholas it's Nicolarse.

Cover her car in post its. I did that once.

refusetobeasheep · 09/01/2017 20:17

Place marking so can keep up!!

fruitbats · 09/01/2017 20:18
Daisyfrumps · 09/01/2017 20:18

I'm worried the Passat will take root at this rate Grin Caroline must be terrified of confrontation.

Amaried · 09/01/2017 20:18

Shamelessly watching for update...
She must be bricking it !

CherryChasingDotMuncher · 09/01/2017 20:18

Norris Nicholas sounds like a nosey bastard, maybe in exchange for the carer's use of your drive he could document Caroline's parking habits? Bet he'd be right good at it, he'd buy a special journal and Parker pen and a seat for his window to monitor her movements. You'd get a daily report emailed on an excel spreadsheet complete with graph and embedded pictures. He'd then research the market and summarise how much she should be charged back for use of your drive.

wictional · 09/01/2017 20:19

Thanks for the diagram OP! I'd been picturing this, and am now even more in awe of Caro's cheek RE parking! (I'd maybe let the carer off but still have words).

Go for the sneak attack!

neighbour using my drive when I'm out.
moogletea · 09/01/2017 20:20

Lisette I went on maternity so suddenly our drive was full all day - anxious to see what happens when I go back to work. Must admit I check the rest of the driveways on my road to see if they've moved in elsewhere - mr green metallic car I have your number!

Lonelyatxmas · 09/01/2017 20:20

shameless placemarking

BringItOn2017 · 09/01/2017 20:21

Shameless placemarker whilst I go and read the penguin thread!!

coffeeneeded · 09/01/2017 20:21

Place marking shamelessly.

Can't wait till Caroline tries to get her car!

RaspberryOverloadTheFirst · 09/01/2017 20:21

I tried to resist but got sucked in... I really want to know what happens next Grin

yoowhoo · 09/01/2017 20:21

I can't believe I've just read through 16 pages and caroline still hasn't come to collect her car!!!! Hurry up Caz!

PidgeyfinderGeneral · 09/01/2017 20:22

This is superb. Really want to see if Caroline will woman up and come round.

We found out that the local Hermes driver was using our drive during the day after he reversed over our recycling bin and broke it. Our NDN had seen him do it and told him off (she is a head of a school so very fearsome) and he scuttled off very quickly apparently.

SurgerplumSprinklePants · 09/01/2017 20:23

Get some birdseed on the bonnet/windscreen. Who knew you had so many shitting birds around your house? Grin

Lissette · 09/01/2017 20:23

I hope they are gone for good Moogletea! What chancers!