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neighbour using my drive when I'm out.

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birdladyfromhomealone · 09/01/2017 16:25

I came home early this morning just after 11am as i have had a chest infection since before Xmas and was struggling at work.
When I got home there were two cars on my drive, one park almost touching my front window and the other one at an angle beside it.
This is the only way to get two cars on the driveway so whoever it was parking there must know the driveway well and how to get two cars on it.
Outside on the road is permit parking and no parking between 10 and 12am.
This is to stop commuters and shoppers parking as we are five minutes from a huge indoor shopping centre.
I had to park behind them blocking them in and blocking the pavement also.
I left a note on my car for the traffic warden
Please knock on door as I have to obstruct the pavement due to two illegally parked cars on my drive.
half an hour later my next door neighbour in his 70's who we NEVER see knocks on my door.
Totally unapologetic and says one car belongs to his wife's carer as she cant park on the road due to restrictions and the other is a neighbour from up the road who uses our driveway when we are at work as her driveway is not big enough.
Even though I was fuming he still just didnt seen to think it was a problem even saying.
Well when your at work your not using it and at least it makes it look like some one is home.
I told him to get them moved straight away.
The carer came round looking really sheepish and asked would I mind if she parked during the restrictions between 10 and 12 as she has been given a ticket in the past. I said fine if no one is in but why cant my neighbour move his car off his drive to enable his wife's carers to park. He cant afford £40 a year to pay for a permit for his carers?
The other car nearly touching my front window is still there so I have put a not on it.
Caroline, I have reported your car to the police as an abandoned vehicle. Since then Nicholas has told me he gave you permission to park here. Nicholas has no business or authority to use our driveway. It would have been polite and neighbourly to at least have asked permission. If your car is parked on my driveway again I will be reporting you to the police.
Tomorrow if I am feeling better I am off the B&Q to buy a chain and paddlock so they cant use my drive!

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Timetogetup0630 · 09/01/2017 20:23

Settling down behind close curtains with binoculars......

happymumof4crazykids · 09/01/2017 20:23

Some people are so bloody cheeky! I would be off sick tomorrow if she doesn't turn up today and I'd make hubby walk to work 😇

insancerre · 09/01/2017 20:23

I think she's waiting till you go to work tomorrow

chocolateworshipper · 09/01/2017 20:24

You could pursue a legal claim for "nuisance" on the grounds that the owner is interfering with your use and enjoyment of your property. Surely worth a few quid to get a scary looking letter from a local solicitor!

www.mirror.co.uk/money/can-you-ram-it-your-7854126

TheCatsMother99 · 09/01/2017 20:24

If Caroline doesn't come to move her car soon I'm going to lose my shit, the suspense is killing me.

(I think I need to get out more)

Mouthfulofquiz · 09/01/2017 20:24

I would personally make sure I was sick enough to stay home tomorrow if I were you. And I never ever skive off work. I would never use my car again if it meant I could block someone onto my own drive Grin

RandomMess · 09/01/2017 20:25

Just Shock that she hasn't turned up yet!!!!

TenaciousOne · 09/01/2017 20:25

I'm with everyone saying she's waiting for you to go it tomorrow.

SauvignonBlanche · 09/01/2017 20:25

I hope you've taken a photo of how close she is to your house?

HappyFlappy · 09/01/2017 20:25

Oooh - I don't know Tudor. . . . I mean I'd love to, but I'm still waiting for a Nigerian Prince whose father was deposed and who needs access to an English bank account so that he can get his personal fortune of 5 millions of our English pounds out of their war torn country. He is a Christian like me, and obviously I was happy to give him full access to all of my accounts and my passwords because he can totally be trusted, even though his grammar is atrocious for someone who went to Eton.

Anyway - he had to take my money out of the accounts to pay the brokers to get his father's money out of the country and into my account. I'm sure that my share (50%) will be in my account any day now.

Will you take a post-dated cheque? I'd hate to miss out on the opportunity of a lifetime.

ChallyCreaks · 09/01/2017 20:26

Please don't go to work tomorrow although I do wish you better very soon. Can your DH take an emergency days leave too so Cazza can't get out without having to see you?

EuropeanSwallow · 09/01/2017 20:26

HappyFlappy it's tough but some of us just have to put up with it.

Cherry It's never too early to start teaching your baby that it's rude to interrupt Mummy when she's doing something frivolous important on MN. Tell the little pest darling to wait, start as you mean to go on.

HappyFlappy · 09/01/2017 20:27

I imagine it's awful to be one of those saddos that gets over-invested in a thread and forgets to put dinner on.

Oh SHIT!!!!!

MerylPeril · 09/01/2017 20:27

This thread might keep me entertained all evening .....

Tinklebinkle · 09/01/2017 20:28

16 pages of joy yoowhoo Honestly, the best day ever! Judge Rinder was ON FIRE this afternoon, DS and DD are enthralled in their handheld gadgets so are being parented by google. Now I have this thread AND a Kinder bueno. Honestly life does not get better than this. Grin

llangennith · 09/01/2017 20:28

This thread is much better than the telly😈

EatSpamAmandaLamb · 09/01/2017 20:28

I can't wait for Princess Car-Oline of Motorcar to rock up and explain this.

I would knock on all the local doors and ask if they saw the TV crew arrive as you must have won the prize draw you entered on day time TV and the car Is obviously part of the prize.

cannotfindanickname · 09/01/2017 20:29

Place marking. Got sucked in want to see what happens when Caroline turns up

AgathaF · 09/01/2017 20:29

She's either going to attempt to move it in the small hours. or wait until you've gone to work tomorrow to reclaim her car. Do you have to go to work? Can you get someone to box her in whilst you're out? She must be feeling a bit panicky now. It could go on for days if you could get friends to take it in turns to block her in whilst you're out.

CotswoldStrife · 09/01/2017 20:30

Do not give her (Caroline) the chance to move her care without speaking to you. Get a taxi to B&Q if you have to or send someone else. The only way you move off that drive is when you leave it securely chained! (sorry carer).

ExitPursuedBySpartacus · 09/01/2017 20:30

Alorsmum · 09/01/2017 20:30

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CotswoldStrife · 09/01/2017 20:30

Car, not care. Getting my illegal parkers confused there Confused

TDmoocher · 09/01/2017 20:31

Hurry up Cazza!!

HappyFlappy · 09/01/2017 20:32

Do you know people actually park in their own parking spaces over there, and within lines too

What are they thinking?