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neighbour using my drive when I'm out.

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birdladyfromhomealone · 09/01/2017 16:25

I came home early this morning just after 11am as i have had a chest infection since before Xmas and was struggling at work.
When I got home there were two cars on my drive, one park almost touching my front window and the other one at an angle beside it.
This is the only way to get two cars on the driveway so whoever it was parking there must know the driveway well and how to get two cars on it.
Outside on the road is permit parking and no parking between 10 and 12am.
This is to stop commuters and shoppers parking as we are five minutes from a huge indoor shopping centre.
I had to park behind them blocking them in and blocking the pavement also.
I left a note on my car for the traffic warden
Please knock on door as I have to obstruct the pavement due to two illegally parked cars on my drive.
half an hour later my next door neighbour in his 70's who we NEVER see knocks on my door.
Totally unapologetic and says one car belongs to his wife's carer as she cant park on the road due to restrictions and the other is a neighbour from up the road who uses our driveway when we are at work as her driveway is not big enough.
Even though I was fuming he still just didnt seen to think it was a problem even saying.
Well when your at work your not using it and at least it makes it look like some one is home.
I told him to get them moved straight away.
The carer came round looking really sheepish and asked would I mind if she parked during the restrictions between 10 and 12 as she has been given a ticket in the past. I said fine if no one is in but why cant my neighbour move his car off his drive to enable his wife's carers to park. He cant afford £40 a year to pay for a permit for his carers?
The other car nearly touching my front window is still there so I have put a not on it.
Caroline, I have reported your car to the police as an abandoned vehicle. Since then Nicholas has told me he gave you permission to park here. Nicholas has no business or authority to use our driveway. It would have been polite and neighbourly to at least have asked permission. If your car is parked on my driveway again I will be reporting you to the police.
Tomorrow if I am feeling better I am off the B&Q to buy a chain and paddlock so they cant use my drive!

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CarolineFromUpUrStreet · 09/01/2017 19:02

nicholas told me it was ok last summer hun

i was drinking prosecco with him on his patio out front last summer and said u no the car is 2 big 4 our drive and he said to park on ur drive u wouldnt mind and wouldnt find out anyway and that was what the carer did

Ilovetorrentialrain · 09/01/2017 19:02

De-lurking OP, this is epic as a thread. Although I'd be fuming too...

Come on Caroline...

CarolineFromUpUrStreet · 09/01/2017 19:02

i thought u and him was friends?

SauvignonBlanche · 09/01/2017 19:02

I agree that Caroline is waiting for her husband to come home and tell her what to do.

Don't be fooled by the Juicy Couture tracksuit wearer - she's an imposter! Grin

CarolineFromUpUrStreet · 09/01/2017 19:03

i never ment no harm

SweepTheHalls · 09/01/2017 19:03

Can the real Caroline please stand up!

dibbley · 09/01/2017 19:03

Caroline is Nicholas's special lady friend.

dibbley · 09/01/2017 19:05

Nicholas's wife can't stand Caroline.

Chippednailvarnishing · 09/01/2017 19:05

Do you like penguins Caroline?

Thattimeofyearagain · 09/01/2017 19:05

Caroline and Nicholas Shock? < clutches pearls and faints>

Questioningeverything · 09/01/2017 19:06

chipped where did you find that pic of me!? Mortified. First time in ages I've covered up that much

Hissy · 09/01/2017 19:06

This I have to see!

Who DOES this? Shocking behaviour!

TudorHouse · 09/01/2017 19:06

Hoover the prosecco party bookingforcarolines house!

EggnogChai · 09/01/2017 19:07

😵

birdladyfromhomealone · 09/01/2017 19:07

Still nothing and I am going to cook dinner now, all lights off but if I hear a car start up I will be out there. she will have to reverse through DH car though!

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CarolineFromUpUrStreet · 09/01/2017 19:07

dibbley do u mean wot i think?
u r so out of order there he is an older gentleman and wouldnt do that
his poor wife
u no nothing
but i will speak to nicholas about it tomorrow cos i am cross with him
as i said i never ment u no harm

PaulDacresConscience · 09/01/2017 19:07

I bloody love a good parking thread

TheThingsWeAdmitOnMN · 09/01/2017 19:07

I'd let the career park there. It's a nightmare finding parking in places like that and the poor woman is doing it all day, every day and getting paid a pittance. Knowing she has a parking space at one call will make her day so much nicer. It's not her fault Nicholas is a dick. She has to put up with him every time she visits his wife!

I wouldn't be too pissed off with Carline either tbh if Nicholas has told her it's fine. Presumably she thinks he's asked you!

Oh and I couldn't be arsed with padlocks when I go out and come in, I'd just get Nicholas told. Properly.

MovingOnUpMovingOnOut · 09/01/2017 19:07

🚗 I'm just parking here.

I think you should get Caroline's car towed

TudorHouse · 09/01/2017 19:07

Hoover? HOOVER? I meant I love the idea of...

Although you could do a Hoover mlm party in her lounge room?

tiredvommachine · 09/01/2017 19:07

Great thread!

StrongerThanIThought76 · 09/01/2017 19:08
Shock
Cakeycakecake · 09/01/2017 19:08

Oh I was sure I'd get to the end and Caroline have claimed back her car, all sheepish like. I'm begging you, block her in and call in sick to work tomorrow. Don't answer the door if she knocks. You're too sick, see?

teaandakitkat · 09/01/2017 19:08

Do you know anyone with a tow truck? I wonder if she'd come out if she saw a tow truck drive into your street? Or a police car? Flush her out!

AyeAmarok · 09/01/2017 19:09

Use Google earth and then draw the diagram over the satellite image on Microsoft Paint!

I love a good parking thread, I do!

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