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Cut out shoulders tops

91 replies

Doowrah · 29/07/2016 19:04

I am in no doubt I am being unreasonable, can't stand these tops and think they make the most attractive people look bloomin' awful. I can't be alone in this surely?

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tellmema · 29/07/2016 19:05

Nope not alone. I hate em

EsmeraldaEllaBella · 29/07/2016 19:06

Urrrrgh I hate them too.

FedupofbeingtoldIcantusemyname · 29/07/2016 19:07

Yep, yanbu. They are awful. Ditto those crop tops that are loose and end at boob level. Ditto anything with an elastic or asymmetric hem not fussy about clothes at all

RedHareWithBlondeHair · 29/07/2016 19:08

Yanbu but no doubt someone will be along soon to berate you for policing other people's sartorial choices!

Wolfiefan · 29/07/2016 19:08

They are not flattering. Must give really bizarre tan lines too!

LemonadeRingOnIt · 29/07/2016 19:08

I was about to tell you that they were called 'cold shoulder' tops. in case you were looking for them. Frankly I think it's an apt name as that's exactly what I'll be giving them!

MrsHathaway · 29/07/2016 19:13

I have only seen cheap versions which hang oddly.

I assume the catwalk originals fit like a glove, and therefore look great.

babbafishbabe · 29/07/2016 19:14

My people have spoken ... I no longer feel alone !!!

Cutecat78 · 29/07/2016 19:16

Oh they are nice!

ESP with a good tan so I won't be wearing one

OjosCansados · 29/07/2016 19:18

Aw... I'm not a big fan, but I do have this one, and I actually think it looks fab on me. I only wear it with skinny jeans for evening though, so no tan lines here:
www.baukjen.com/uk/m/shop/baukjen/tops/jersey-tops/lila-top-caviar-black.htm

OjosCansados · 29/07/2016 19:19

(Agree with cutecat... Looks good with tanned shoulders!)

OjosCansados · 29/07/2016 19:20

Just realised my sentence didn't make sense... The jeans don't prevent the tan lines, the evening-only usage does!!

KeyserSophie · 29/07/2016 19:22

You need to be slim with longish arms and toned tanned shoulders.

ShesAStar · 29/07/2016 19:24

I hate them! I think they are ugly and unflattering. Yuck!

Gizlotsmum · 29/07/2016 19:25

I used to wear them years ago ( alternative ) wouldn't touch them now

ShesAStar · 29/07/2016 19:26

I'm just not keen on the style so having tanned shoulders doesn't help. I like tops that fall down one shoulder, like a slashed neck, oversized jumper.

Kittykatmacbill · 29/07/2016 19:28

Before I realised they were a thing, I thought I kept seeing women with a arm missing! (As the hole was actually a armhole of a vest) probably another sign of sleep deprivation...

MrsKoala · 29/07/2016 19:29

I think they would actually suit me but i still think they are ugly. I love off the shoulder tops tho. Those look like a half way version for people who want off the shoulder but also want to wear a bra (which is the point of off the shoulder - that you don't have an obtrusive strap ruining the line).

Pardonwhat · 29/07/2016 19:32

I've got one on now. I get lots of compliments over it.

DietCockBreak · 29/07/2016 19:34

I like them.

SuckingEggs · 29/07/2016 19:34

YABU.

They look great with brown, toned shoulders. You need to pay for a good cut though.

If you look like shit in them, avoid!

FeliciaJollygoodfellow · 29/07/2016 19:35

I personally don't like them but I can see they are flattering on some people.

DeadGood · 29/07/2016 19:37

Bleurgh, hate those stupid "clever" names, some smug git in a planning meeting came up with "ooooh let's call it a cold shoulder top""yeah, like it!!"
Pfft

MistressMerryWeather · 29/07/2016 19:43

I think they can look quite chic on the right person.

They look like shit on me, though.

bigTillyMint · 29/07/2016 19:46

Haha, was it the One Show that prompted your thread? DS (15) said "what has she got on?" and was most horrified when I said they are fashionable at the moment! I hope he doesn't make any negative comments when he realises his sister has a dress with cut-outs!