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Original poster

My ex-h and his OW are utterly nasty, goady c***s for doing this...

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TheFormidableMrsC · 07/02/2016 01:23

Haven't name changed, probably should have given huge backstory...however, tell me I am unreasonable? My ex-h turned up today with a private plate on his new Audi displaying his, OW's, her son's and our son's initials. He pays less than £4 a day in maintenance as he pleaded poverty and only last week refused to pay £14 for two new school jumpers for our DS. He is an utter cunt, isn't he?

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Gunting · 07/02/2016 01:25

Eww, yes he is.

Want2bSupermum · 07/02/2016 01:26

I would be calling inland revenue and the maintenance people unless the OW has a very paid job and it's clear its her money that's paid for it.

Pipsqueak23 · 07/02/2016 01:26

YANBU. Your ex-h sounds like a selfish man who puts his needs above his own DC's

MissFlight · 07/02/2016 01:26

Yes he is, of the highest order and a pretentious wanker to boot.

FoxesSitOnBoxes · 07/02/2016 01:26

He really is a total cunt. Flowers

lazyarse123 · 07/02/2016 01:27

What a wanker, you're well rid.

LillyInTheMoon · 07/02/2016 01:27

Yep I think that about sums him up.

Flowers I remember your back story. What an arsehole.

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TheFormidableMrsC · 07/02/2016 01:28

Yes Gunting, I thought that too. This is the ex-h who cut us off without a backward glance in ways I have gone on and on about in relationships. However, he thinks it's OK to turn up in an expensive car with a plate that includes my DS who he has roundly abandoned emotionally and financially. He is a cocklodger, I should say, with OW for her money.

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lazyarse123 · 07/02/2016 01:29

Can somebody tell me how to do flower thing, i'm crap at i t.

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TheFormidableMrsC · 07/02/2016 01:30

Want2besupermum...am totally on it. Am compelled to cooperate with HMRC.

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Destinysdaughter · 07/02/2016 01:31
Flowers
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TheFormidableMrsC · 07/02/2016 01:32

Lazy, got your flowers my darling! Thank you!

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LillyInTheMoon · 07/02/2016 01:32

lazy it's [ flowers ] only without the spaces

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TheFormidableMrsC · 07/02/2016 01:38

I should point out that I am benefit dependent, a carer for our ASD son (age 4) who he has fucking failed at every turn. Please forgive my sudden onset tourettes, but I can't actually help it at the moment. OW is wealthy, older, hates me with a vengeance and thinks the £150 a month he currently gives me for "maintenance" is more than I deserve. Her DS, however, would never be subjected to such fuckwittery. She is also a widow who moved my husband in 4 1/2 months after her husband's funeral. They are so utterly disgusting, clearly don't realise what people think of them and are so self absorbed they can't get past hating me for doing absolutely nothing but existing and thus spew their venom on my DS.

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lazyarse123 · 07/02/2016 01:38

Flowers got it. Thank you.

CheshireChat · 07/02/2016 01:39

I was sure this thread will be yours, MrsC! I hope he gets a flat tyre/ scratches his car on your behalf.

HelenaDove · 07/02/2016 01:40

What A Cunt. Thanks for you

CheshireChat · 07/02/2016 01:40

Or maybe it's better if his cock fall off...

FlatOnTheHill · 07/02/2016 01:41

Total cunt. I feel your pain and anger. My ex pleads poverty and is absolutely loaded.
Thinks nothing of turning up in new Porsche just before xmas and told me he was struggling and the maintenance will be a week late and "oh by the way I wont be having DS next weekend as we are off to Dubai" AngryAngry
I ask for half towards new school shoes and he says "im struggling this month". He is so bloody tight its unreal. Maintenance money i get is very poor show.

Sometimes I actually want to smash the cunts face in Angry

FlatOnTheHill · 07/02/2016 01:44

Thanks For you MrsC and all the other mums that get treated like shite. We deserve so much more.

MadameDePompom · 07/02/2016 01:51

Cunt is too good a word for him. He's a festering knob boil.

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TheFormidableMrsC · 07/02/2016 01:53

Flat so sorry you're going through this too....don't get it, never will. Unfortunately my ex is a "family" surfer, seeks out single mothers who can immediately house him, has done this four times now...I was #3, totally naive idiot that I was...clearly this time he's trying to prove a point which he has to as OW is shocking looking (his own words) but she's wealthy and he's "landed on his feet" (his own words). I actually don't give a shit, what I actually want is for him to be a decent father to his son and financially support him properly. Urgh, arsehole.....

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VacheEspanol · 07/02/2016 02:01

Do you know what cunts are strong. And this guy sounds weak and a total loser. Don't honor him with the title cunt . He is a monumental loser of mc loser ville.

FlatOnTheHill · 07/02/2016 02:02

Oh my fucking good lord. Is your ex my ex. My ex goes for the ones that have plenty of money....landed on his feet is one of his sayings. They never stay with him. They eventually see the light. Yet he has money himself but hates to part with it in any way. Hence always wealthy girlfriends. Hes latest has just had his baby.
My point is. Children should come first and these arseholes should respect us as the mothers of their children in that we are doing the hard job of bringing them up and doing all the nitty gritty and 90% of the financing.
Sorry im tired so all that prob sounded so shit and badly worded.
Im with you on this 100% MrsC. I dont think we have agreed on a few threads in the past but I know feel I have a comrade when it comes to this sort of thing

Broken1Girl · 07/02/2016 02:04

Yes, yes he is Angry Flowers