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AIBU?

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DH seems to be mixed up in something dodgy

83 replies

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:03

I met my husband and he was a really sweet guy. He comes from a very close knit family who are quite harsh and volatile, but he always said he was different from the rest of them and he would never end up like them. We dated for two years but then he disappeared for over a year. I tried to contact him and I knew his family knew where he was but I couldn't get through, no emails, letters, nothing.

Then all of a sudden he reappeared and asked me to marry him. We've been married for 5 years and have two children but over that time he has got more and more involved in his family's business. AIBU to be worried?

His father was shot (but survived), his brother was killed but then his dad died about a year later. Something strange is going on. They say the firm is an olive oil importing company from Italy but I'm not sure I believe them.

His sister's husband has just been killed and she's accusing my DH of killing him. I don't know what to do.

DH is very good looking. And we're rich. Should I just ignore it?

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jaynebxl · 22/06/2015 23:04

Don't ignore it. I think you should write a book about it.

lougle · 22/06/2015 23:05

Mafia, right? Grin

gobbynorthernbird · 22/06/2015 23:05

I'd keep my DC well away. Especially DD.

Stinkylinky · 22/06/2015 23:06
Hmm
MrsV2012 · 22/06/2015 23:06
Hmm
FarFromAnyRoad · 22/06/2015 23:06

I never understand these pretend threads. What's this one meant to be about?

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:07

Don't even get me started on the horse.

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PoorNeglectedBike · 22/06/2015 23:07

I think you need to be gutsy and clever and go undercover to find out what's going on. I bet there's a rugged, principled yet fly by the seat of his pants kind of undercover cop who you could probably work with, and maybe even use to replace dodgy dh

bettythebuilder · 22/06/2015 23:08

Yes, just ignore it, it'll all be fine. Nothing out of the ordinary there.

lougle · 22/06/2015 23:08

The Godfather

PintOfJohnSmiths · 22/06/2015 23:09

Kay Adams - The Godfather

Grin
ilovesooty · 22/06/2015 23:09

Is this supposed to be funny? Is it based on a film or something?

ilovesooty · 22/06/2015 23:09

X post. I see.

FarFromAnyRoad · 22/06/2015 23:10

I'm wondering that too sooty. Can anyone tell me the point?

AnyFucker · 22/06/2015 23:10

right-o

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:10

No, ilovesooty I don't think DH has taken me to the cinema. But we did go to the opera.

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DonVitoCorleone · 22/06/2015 23:10

Ahem

FarFromAnyRoad · 22/06/2015 23:11

So - err - The Godfather needs rewriting in a parenting website forum style? Ok. Why?

Fatmomma99 · 22/06/2015 23:11

sounds like a plucky girl is needed.

MrsV2012 · 22/06/2015 23:11

Sounds like a totally normal set up if you're on My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding

FayKnights · 22/06/2015 23:12

'Something dodgy' greatest understatement ever! Took me a minute to realise why I recognised your name.

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:12

Ooops. Rumbled.

DonVitoCorleone I think you and the family are great.

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TrollTheRespawnJeremy · 22/06/2015 23:13

Take the diamonds and run.

Yellowbird54321 · 22/06/2015 23:13

Just find threads like this really boring and pointless tbh. No doubt that won't deter the OP from banging on a bit more, thinking it's ever so amusing.

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:15

Wink to Yellowbird for commenting on this and bumping this thread up the page Flowers

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