DH seems to be mixed up in something dodgy

[KayAdams]

I met my husband and he was a really sweet guy. He comes from a very close knit family who are quite harsh and volatile, but he always said he was different from the rest of them and he would never end up like them. We dated for two years but then he disappeared for over a year. I tried to contact him and I knew his family knew where he was but I couldn't get through, no emails, letters, nothing.

Then all of a sudden he reappeared and asked me to marry him. We've been married for 5 years and have two children but over that time he has got more and more involved in his family's business. AIBU to be worried?

His father was shot (but survived), his brother was killed but then his dad died about a year later. Something strange is going on. They say the firm is an olive oil importing company from Italy but I'm not sure I believe them.

His sister's husband has just been killed and she's accusing my DH of killing him. I don't know what to do.

DH is very good looking. And we're rich. Should I just ignore it?

I'm with Moom. Ignore. He's hot. And try to get him to give Fredo some kind of an important-sounding job to build up his self-esteem. That's key.

Yy, look after poor BIL.

Elk's "And this day might never come but I will call upon you to give me a YANBU" was funny and clever

Nothing wrong with an occasional geek-off on MN.

Give OP a freakin' break!

YANBU to be suspicious OP, but I would put up and shut up for the sake of the kids

Agree, Ledare. Elk's made me laugh. And I think this is nice -- a welcome break from the problems of RL.

OP, listen to tiffany! Think of the children!

I've just seen the post from poor Karen Hill

Lay off the gak and ltb, Karen!

OMG so I googled "horse head" to show you the type of thing I have to put up with, what with living with this family and everything...

..... and apparently it was a real head. From the knacker's yard.

Poor horse.