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AIBU?

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DH seems to be mixed up in something dodgy

83 replies

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:03

I met my husband and he was a really sweet guy. He comes from a very close knit family who are quite harsh and volatile, but he always said he was different from the rest of them and he would never end up like them. We dated for two years but then he disappeared for over a year. I tried to contact him and I knew his family knew where he was but I couldn't get through, no emails, letters, nothing.

Then all of a sudden he reappeared and asked me to marry him. We've been married for 5 years and have two children but over that time he has got more and more involved in his family's business. AIBU to be worried?

His father was shot (but survived), his brother was killed but then his dad died about a year later. Something strange is going on. They say the firm is an olive oil importing company from Italy but I'm not sure I believe them.

His sister's husband has just been killed and she's accusing my DH of killing him. I don't know what to do.

DH is very good looking. And we're rich. Should I just ignore it?

OP posts:
AuntyHisthamine · 22/06/2015 23:15

Who is being naive, Kay?

EnriqueTheRingBearingLizard · 22/06/2015 23:15

Very timely intervention there DVC Grin

Summerisle1 · 22/06/2015 23:15

So - err - The Godfather needs rewriting in a parenting website forum style? Ok. Why?

I have to ask similarly.
It's very difficult to make this sort of 'pretend story about a story' thread amusing. As the OP has discovered.

CandOdad · 22/06/2015 23:17

Is his last name Soprano?

makingmiracles · 22/06/2015 23:18

Biscuit go to bed, sounds like you good do with the sleep Hmm

bikeandrun · 22/06/2015 23:19

Made me smile, if you don't like don't read it!

DonVitoCorleone · 22/06/2015 23:19

On a separate note, i used this MN nickname for a long time then changed it, ive missed being Vito!

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:19

Corleone CandOdad

OP posts:
FarFromAnyRoad · 22/06/2015 23:19

Maybe it's some kind of 'in joke' - the reasons for which will never be made known to those not clapping and cheering the OP's ingenuity. Oh well. Quelle dommage.

MissBananaMama · 22/06/2015 23:21

What's the point?

MistressMerryWeather · 22/06/2015 23:22

I'm gonna leave this post and take the cannoli.

Ledare · 22/06/2015 23:23

Give the OP a break. I have it on good authority that Luca Brasi held a gun to her head, and her FIL assured her that either her brains or her post would be on Mumsnet. Thats a true story.

Alchemist · 22/06/2015 23:24

I was finding this quite funny but apparently shouldn't.

workingdilemma · 22/06/2015 23:25

My goodness! OP i don't wish to alarm you but it sounds like your DH's 'business' may be a mafia organisation. If you have kids, i would consider talking to the police and looking to go into witness protection.

Flowers - sounds like you need to talk to someone in real life about this. Do be careful. Thinking of you Flowers

stainesmassif · 22/06/2015 23:26

Get some blackout blinds, fgs.

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:27

Maybe I should get the family to take care of the MNers who don't like this thread. Ahh, I feel better about it already.

Grin
OP posts:
Ledare · 22/06/2015 23:27

stainesmassif Grin

"IN MY HOME! IN MY BEDROOM! Where my wife sleeps... and my children play with their toys."

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:29

God, I wish Mumsnet had like buttons for posts, the way facebook does. Star

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KarenHill · 22/06/2015 23:30

You think that's bad?

DH is a lying, cheating scumbag who got us all mixed up in this lifestyle.

He's a bad fella.

Alchemist · 22/06/2015 23:30

I must compliment your family for throwing such a lovely wedding and for granting my husband an audience.

Signed: Weeping Widow x

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:30

But actually, I will take the advice of someone and go to bed, not least because my laptop is about to run out of battery.

Smile
OP posts:
FreudiansSlipper · 22/06/2015 23:31

I know nothing

I have noticed your name is Adams

Alchemist · 22/06/2015 23:32

Karen I think I met him before you became his Mrs Shock

KayAdams · 22/06/2015 23:33

Don't drive the car, Alchemist

Battery on 2%

night xxxx

OP posts:
KarenHill · 22/06/2015 23:33

Was he blowing up cabs?

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