So to make a long story short, my 7 yo dd had a small accident at a party when someone hurt her eye with a nerf gun bullet and after we got worried it might have affected her vision and asked her if anything's blurry, she has been saying (when asked) that she can't see well from that one eye. My dh took her to see an ophthalmologist twice (!) with the second one actually dilating her pupils and both said there was no sign of damage and she could read the chart fine but if it still wasn't better to bring her back....my dh tends to overreact with things like that and I find it really annoying because I don't think there is anything wrong with her eye ( and I'm the mother!) anyway, this evening, while reading her a book she mentioned that daddy made her make a pinky promise about smth saying that she's not allowed to tell anyone about it, inc me!!!! I started asking her more questions about it and all she could say was that it had something to do with her eye and that if she told me Id be cross and then she got upset as she realised I was getting cross anyway... I'm so furious at my dh for teaching her to have secrets from me! I also heard her tell him later when she got into her bed that mummy is sad because she told me there was a secret between them and still he hasn't said a word to me...am I the only one who feels totally betrayed in such situation and let down by him? Is it just my PMS? Help please. This is my first post btw so hope it's ok.