to finish myself off -TMI warning

[LEMmingaround]

More if an is it just me really?

Whenever dp and I have a good session, I always have to finish the job myself. Not that I don't orgasm during but whenever we are finished I have to diy to have a final different type of orgasm. I never orgasm on penetrative sex so its not that . Does anyone else find this? If I dont orgasm during the session then I don't have to do it

I also lose the ability to move my legs afterwards

Sometimes I do, really depends on the session.

I hate losing the ability to walk after sex, but that means it must have been a good session.

Lose the ability to walk?! Eh?! I must have been doing it wrong!

I pass out sometimrs as well. Maybe im doing it wrong

Reading this I'm definitely doing it wrong!

you pass out jings what are you doing

Having nookie :)

I KNOW THAT BUT...

Wow. I've never lost consciousness OR been temporarily paralysed by sex. I don't even know whether I should wonder if I'm missing something or to be jolly glad about it

Pass out? Are you partaking in some erotic esphyxiation or something

It will be the over flood of endorphins that are realeased during sex.

Why can't he finish you off by hand? A nice end to a close experience.

well i am obviously not getting enough endorphines I think i should be a bit humphy about that but passing out would scare me

that it only last Seconds then im all chilled out. Only thing is it has to be a LONG session to get that.

Jesus LEM, have you never heard of "share not scare".

any back to the question I don't finish off afterwards I so think we are doing it wrong

Gamer it has to be me not him

maybe it is just your thing i dont think there is anything unusual about diy afterwards sex is what you make of it sometimes you get aftertingles and maybe that is why you want to DIY,

Think passing out would terrify me.

I often cry uncontrollably after a particularly good session. That terrifies dh. He thinks he's hurt me, or something's wrong. I also shake sometimes. No idea why.

Blimey, TMI is understating it just a bit.

Bloody hell!

I rarely finish of at all! Let alone lose control of my legs or pass out!

Although I suffer from pain and fatigue so quite often during sex I'm thinking, "ow hurry up!"

I used to be fun really I did!

I love a good TMI sex thread. No you're ok, OP. I can only have a full on big clitoral orgasm with a vibrator, so I know if I want one if those (and I always do) I'll either do myself first and then call DH up or I'll DIY afterwards. I'm ok for everything in between, but if I want a big shuddering full body orgasm with after shocks, sex is too distracting I am weird though.

lol @sex being too distracting

er I want what your doing op.