And I fundamentally disagree with 'it's the brides day, all focus should be on her' and other princessy nonsense.
Weddings are about families coming together and celebrating love and cementing the future.
There were hundreds of little things that made me happy on my wedding day and swanning about in my white dress was only one of them. Dancing like a loon with my adoring husband and spilling red wine down it was much more fun.