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To think that this may possibly, perhaps, could be perceived as Bad Form?

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ChaosTrulyReigns · 18/09/2013 19:28

DD2 brought a school trip letter home yesterday - 10 places to bexawarded on a first come, first served basis.

She was 8th in the queue, the pupil before her handed in her slip and 3 extras for friends.

It takes a lot for her to get out of bed early, and she really wanted this opportunity - one that her sister experienced 2 years ago, and I really wanted then tu have the same chance.

Gah

AIBU to be a bit miffed?

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ChaosTrulyReigns · 18/09/2013 19:28

That title is shit.

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ChaosTrulyReigns · 18/09/2013 19:28

That title is shit.

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ChaosTrulyReigns · 18/09/2013 19:29

That title is shit.

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justabigdisco · 18/09/2013 19:29

YANBU - I'd be complaining about that.

jennycoast · 18/09/2013 19:30

YANBU at all.

Fairy1303 · 18/09/2013 19:30

Personally I think it is bad form to have first come first serve for a school trip! That's awful!

But yes, given that they did it that way, girl in front should only have been able to hand in for herself, I agree.

YANBU

catgirl1976 · 18/09/2013 19:30

YANBU

That's not cricket

CatAmongThePigeons · 18/09/2013 19:30

YANBU. Surely they should only take the form if the person is there to hand it in?

LittleMissGerardButlerfan · 18/09/2013 19:31

YANBU to be miffed!

I could tell it was you from the multiple posts :o

But seriously that is not fair, I would take it up with school.

MarmaladeTwatkins · 18/09/2013 19:31

YANBU bab!

I would complain, actually. It is NOT FAIR.

HairyGrotter · 18/09/2013 19:31

YANBU

I'd be having a word about that, personally!

Sirzy · 18/09/2013 19:32

Yanbu. I would contact the school

HandragsAndGladbags · 18/09/2013 19:32

Should be names in a hat imo

Ledkr · 18/09/2013 19:32

I'd be cross. You going to say anything?

ChaosTrulyReigns · 18/09/2013 19:34

You know what? I think I will. The probbo is, I'm a Governor there and really don't want to be seen to be doing things that might be seen as using contacts, or implying that the school is not following correct or cricket Wink procedures.

Ugh.

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YourHandInMyHand · 18/09/2013 19:35

Its not fair, the other kids should have gotten out of bed and handed them in themselves if they were that bothered.

ChaosTrulyReigns · 18/09/2013 19:35

I'd be much happier with names in a hat.

All slip so handed in by 3pm on X day have an equal chasnce of "winning".,

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Portofino · 18/09/2013 19:37

That ismSO unfair!

flowery · 18/09/2013 19:37

If she was 8th in the queue she was 8th in the queue, so her and the two after her should all have places as they were bothered enough to get there early.

Floggingmolly · 18/09/2013 19:38

The school is not following procedures; that's really crap. Why would you imagine being a governor means you have to suck it up? Confused

BoffinMum · 18/09/2013 19:38

She needs to get better at networking in future. An important life skill. Wink

MarmaladeTwatkins · 18/09/2013 20:14

Are you a governor, Chaos?! You SWOT.

Come for coffee please so that you can tell me all about being a govinir.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 18/09/2013 20:20

Our school stopped doing 'first come first serve' a while back. Names in a hat now - but my dc's names never seem to be the ones that come out of the hat

ChaosTrulyReigns · 18/09/2013 21:57

Yup.

I am a foine upstanding pillow of the community.

Whodathunk?
Sabrina, there's a secret special lip in that hst - so the draw can be manipulated.

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MikeOxard · 18/09/2013 21:59

First come first served - where the fuck were they? They didn't come, so they can get to fuck imo. Not on at all.

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